Only for women with long-term partners

[Bryana111]

Hey, I'm 35 and ve been with my man for quite some time now. I noticed that our sex life has fallen into a routine. Can you share any of your special stuff you do with you partner to spice up the sex? Suggestions on oral sex? I understand sex is a very important part of a longterm relationship, that's why I'm a bit worried about how it will go on in the future.
TNX

[Abby71]

Hey
I'm married for 5 years now.
We usually plan special nights every couple of month when we really devote ourselves to one another, maybe go to a hotel, rent some cottage somewhere away from the buzz ...
I think know how to satisfy your man orraly it's really important, cause men really love it. I suggest you read some articles about this ... it's a lot of this stuff on the net. I good blog with really interesting and crazy tips I found is here:

Oral sex tips for women

Hope I helped!

[EvilEvilKitten]

*chuckling*

Do The Program, taking your time about it, and see where that leads.

[2little]

ideas i have come up with.

#1. one night he is watching tv, movies, play video games whatever he is into just sit next to him or behind him in able to and undo his pants and give him a hand job.
#2. wear a white t-shirt his mostly. get into the shower and get wet (wet t-shirt contest idea). as him to come in cause you need him to get something for you. open the door or curtain and ask if he would come be the "judge"....
#3.one thing i wanna do but husband don't is meet up at a local dive. (mostly where no one would know your married) and have you sitting at the bar with a drink already. have him show up about a half hour later and act like he is trying to pick you up. then when you get home say something like "i am being to explore my sexuallity are u man enough to cum for the journey?"

i have more ideas if you would like them

[dancingdoc2]

In addition to EEKs "The Program" and her other articles, please read thru the many articles listed in the Index found at the top of the main screen. These articles were written to provide information for any and all who have questions and concerns when writing in. There are many articles that discuss how to make out, do foreplay, have intercourse, along with a lot of background information.

[salliann]

Have you thought of dirty talk? My husband loves when I talk dirty to him.. and not just in bed. If we are in a store, I will walk up to him and say something like, "Look at the spot over there, I would you to bend me over that (note item on showroom floor) and fuck me hard! And finger my asshole while you fuck me"

I have done things like that and I am always surprised the hot reaction I get from him.

Or, while you are out at the mall, grab HIS ass while you two are walking. Let someone see you.

Have you two tried doing a little petting in public. Just don't play in a parking lot for example that have recording cameras. Its hot to do that, but it can also be used as evidence at trial (happened to a friend).

Ok for my first post?

Good luck and let us know what you do.

Salli

[EvilEvilKitten]

Your first post was just fine, Sallie. Welcome!

[moreplease]

Sex does become routine, if you don't have a plan to keep it interesting. 20+ has taught me that life becomes boring if you don't keep it varied. This site is a good place for new ideas, so good luck!

[VanellaSchnella]

My girlfriend and I did role play... I fell asleep in her anatomy class and boy was I in trouble . So much dirty talk and it was great. I don't wanna do it too often though because I love her and it was hard for me not to talk to her like I loved her.. had to play the role..which was fun for sure.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Sex becomes routine? HUH? Who says?

NOT ME!

Even after 30 years married and the only thing in my hand is a small bottle of lubricant as I LEAP into joyous union. The only thing a person needs is enthusiasm! Pony up, baby!

Yeeehaw!