Help, should i do it?

[MariaS]

Hey, I need someone who had experience with this to tell me so I don't throw money out of the window. I was/and still am in a way insecure about some stuff, particularly about giving my boyfriend bj's. we've been together for a year and im giving him head but he never has na orgasm and i just can't figure out what im doing wrong. so i read a bunch of stuff online about it but couldnt find anything that helped me out with some issued. So i stumbled upon this book called "jacks blowjob lessons" and i don't know if its any good or if its worth it. did any1 read it? thanks and please answer. i'm lost if i should get it or not

M

[EvilEvilKitten]

Save your money and ASK your Boyfriend why he doesn't orgasm from your efforts. He is the only one who can answer your questions. As for immediate help - suck on a popsicle without biting it for practice.

[dancingdoc2]

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[Cool]

Don't buy the book!!! Talk to your BF and ask what he likes when you're give him a BJ and ask why or if he can cum doing it? That is the only way to really kno.


Side note: rent some porn and take notes

[EvilEvilKitten]

No, porn is also the wrong educational tool - they keep having her take her mouth away and using her hand which most guys absolutely HATE.

Popsicles, girl, popsicles and suck.

[22much]

What works for me is lots of saliva, eye contact, her acting like she likes to do it. But Kitten is right treat it like the best popsicle you ever had. Suck it in and play with it with your tongue. Ask him what he likes. If you want him to cum tell him you want him to cum in your mouth (unless you don't). Tell him you like to suck on his cock.

He wants to know you are willing and you like it.

[VanellaSchnella]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

No, porn is also the wrong educational tool - they keep having her take her mouth away and using her hand which most guys absolutely HATE.

Popsicles, girl, popsicles and suck.

true that...but jaws do get tired..so do learn how to give good hand jobs when youre taking a break.

[VanellaSchnella]

If you can deep throat... do it. Although it isnt the best feeling thing you can do it feels damn good and is soooo hot. I havent had this done but i would love a girl to spit on my dick. Other tips..avoid scrapping with your teeth..so painful, use the tongue and be creative. Lick the hell out of his frenulum when sucking on the head..it feels great. Also if you can give deep throat and youre really good at it try to swirl your tongue around the dick the whole way up and down...he'll lose his mind..or at least i would/have.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Jaws only get tired if the guy is being 'stingy'.

Give it up!

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR.

[VanellaSchnella]

and act like you love doing it and you literally wanna suck the cum right out of his dick. dont suck too too hard though..but firmly..go nuts but be careful