My boyfriend gets more aroused by pulling my hair - Is this normal?

[SpicyGirl69]

Hi everyone. My boyfriend gets more aroused while having sex by pulling my hair. Is this normal?

[captaincrunch]

turn about is fair play so why not crunch his coconuts

[lnt1103]

Ignore Captain unless your boyfriend tells you he's into what was suggested.

Which actually leads into a good point. Everybody has their turn-ons, and it would be good for the two of you to talk about what turns each of you on and what doesn't. Grabbing the partner's hair isn't an unusual turn-on. If you're not into him pulling your hair, discuss it with him. I'm sure there are other things he can do.

[sexdiva68]

My bf loves to pull my hair, its normal... men know that a female's head is sensitive and for many females having their hair pulled is arousing...

[Ilove]

That is totally normal. My girlfriend goes crazy if I pull her hair. Not hard, just a nice tug so she knows I can control her. She also enjoys doing mostly the same thing to me, although she is slightly less dominant about it (she likes to submit not to control).

[dlb]

Quite normal SpicyGirl69. As long as you are willing to allow him to do it. You might find it more arousing also. While not having sex you could talk about how hard he might be allowed to pull. My wife enjoys having her hair pulled. When we were dating she would ask me to do it. It was strange at first but I found it to be a turn on for me to do something that turns her on more.

[EvilEvilKitten]

It is normal - because few things in human sexuality can be considered abnormal. Hair grabbing and pulling is a power thing that many couples enjoy.

If you enjoy it - fine. IF you do not enjoy having your hair pulled - also fine. You DON'T have to agree to everything your partner wants.

Me, I absolutely HATE having my hair pulled. Especially after getting my hair done and spending $$$ on it. Hands in hair - possible under certain conditions but pulling - NO!

[mwah73]

I looooooooove having my hair pulled. Between that, him talking talking dirty to me and him biting me, I'm realizing I'm not as "prim and proper" as I thought I was.

[moreplease]

Hair pulling...steady and passionate without it being painful...is such a turn on for me. This is especially true during the act. It's a personal issue - some like it and some don't.

[KissMeHard]

Hair pulling, is nice! It's a personal preference that adds to the mix. If you like it great and if you don't, then tell him. This adds a little spice to the act for me.