Blow job problem! :(

[Sideburns101]

Hey people. recently i have asked my girlfriend if she would give me a blow job, and she refused. She has done it before with no problem but recently she said she doesnt like it anymore. I am very thoughtful and considerate with her opinion on the matter and she says she never really enjoyed it but never disliked it either. I want to know if there is someway to respectfully persuade her into blow jobs again?

[dancingdoc2]

* Keep the lines of communication open.

* Periodically revisit the topic, openly and without pressure.

* Ask her to read the various articles listed in the Index on making out and the one specifically about Foreplay. After the two of you read them, discuss what you have learned.

[Sideburns101]

how common is it for people to just fall out of the love making idea? She used to be very much into love and sex and recently just stopped. So is it possible that she just unknowingly doesnt care about it any more?

[maupassant]

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I am just a bit worried of the use of the word 'persuade'. However I am sure you would not do that, even 'respectfully'. Try to find out if there is anything she objects to and just does not like about it.

[Eforcer]

I found many relations when first started, the woman is very willing to provide the occasional BJ. But once the relationship is on going is like an automatic STOP to that service. Lucky for me, I don't care if I get one or not. But there are relationships out there that end up suffering for the unequal opportunity of giving head. : (

[EvilEvilKitten]

Okay - what's really annoying her?

There are three points to consider:

1. STOP trying to persuade her to do anything. Ask once and then let it go.
2. There's a reason why she stopped - find out what that reason is.
3. SOME girls use sex (or various sexual acts) to get a guy and then once the guy is gotten, stop doing those acts.

To determine which of the above is operating here - do as Doc has said.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Oh yeah, JAckT, and she - who can most likely get a guy easier than he can get a girl, will just figure he's too big of a pain and will drop him for another guy. If she has any character, she just might.

Much better to give up any such nonsense and instead of getting all macho. find out what's going on in her head.

[maupassant]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Oh yeah, JAckT, and she - who can most likely get a guy easier than he can get a girl, will just figure he's too big of a pain and will drop him for another guy. If she has any character, she just might.

Much better to give up any such nonsense and instead of getting all macho. find out what's going on in her head.

That sums it up well enough for me.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Keep a firm grasp of reality BUT understand that as you believe, so shall you do. So, if she believes you ejaculating into her mouth is ICK, she simply will not permit you to it and it is useless to badger her about it.

Go find out what she believes.