How do I ask her to let me cum in her mouth?

[demonbuttercup]

I agree we all make compromises when it comes to sexual acts.
Personally, I do not like cum in my mouth either... I have tried and the taste catches me off guard no matter how much I try to prepare myself for it.
Also, I have never went down on a girl.. but like I've sucked a guys fingers after he's fingered me..etc.. and the taste isn't as concentrated and pungent as cum.

[Rantina]

Just send her to - type into google "how to give head" and the first thing that comes out, she'll get convinced there

[vibrator]

If she doesn't like it she doesn't like it, you may need to get a new girlfriend if that is something you feel you need.

[sania]

Dont ask. keep doing it. see her expressions. if you feel she does not like it . keep it for next time. dont force but keep trying. after all she also loves you. one day or other she will try to please you. thats what you want ! isnt it.

[VanellaSchnella]

Originally Posted by vibrator

If she doesn't like it she doesn't like it, you may need to get a new girlfriend if that is something you feel you need.

keeping this girl whether she takes a mouthful or not

[EvilEvilKitten]

Dammit since when does SHE HAVE to do everything HE wants her to do? Is there some law or something that says NEVERMIND WHAT SHE SAYS JUST DO IT ANYWAY??

STOP IT.

The Lady said NO and that is the end of it.

[VanellaSchnella]

So she asked(without me bringing it up ever) if it bothers me that she doesnt let me cum in her mouth. I answered that it would be nice if I could but its her choice.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Quite right. You answered correctly and now the 'ball is in her court'.
By seemingly acquiesing, you are actually putting the onus where it belongs - onto her.

Machiavelli has nothing on the average woman. If she came in here to ask, I'd tell her how to defeat this ploy I'm telling him.
*evil grin* Hey - it is all part of the fun!

[weirdloadsbureau]

I have a similar situation and I sort of understand your dilemma. My wife and I have been together for a long time and, before we were having intercourse, swallowing was the natural ending to our episodes. That lasted several years and it's probably my favorite of all sexual acts. We have been having intercourse for just as long now and, for the last several years oral has only been for foreplay, she doesn't swallow anymore.

She has expressed a dislike in the past for being asked to give favors so I promised (more to myself than to her) that I wouldn't ask anymore and I've been true to that promise for almost (meaning- since she expressed a dislike for being asked) our entire relationship. I think the thing to remember is- you told her she wouldn't have to. You could have a talk with her about it if it's something you really want but it sounds like you've already had that talk. She knows it's something you want and if she wants to give it to you she will. I know it sucks but it's her decision.