Cant Seem To get Pleasure

[XXStephXX]

I Cant Seen To get Pleasure During My Partner Fingering Me Or Even My Self DoIng It, Why Is This And Can SomeOne Help Me x

[dancingdoc2]

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Am I correct in assuming from your comment on deriving "pleasure" that you mean being able to achieve an orgasm? Or, do you mean just being able to summon up great feelings from being touched and caressed?

First of all, do you masturbate and if so are you able to climax from this activity? If the answer is yes, then communication is most likely what is lacking. Take his fingers in your hand and move them like you do when home alone in order for him to learn your unique and special technique. Second, feedback, either verbal and/or non-verbal on how you are responding to his caresses and for what you need now/next is crucial.

There are several articles listed in the Index pertaining to the female orgasm as well as how to train yourself to achieve them. I would read that one if you have not yet made the transition to an orgasmic woman.

For girls, learning to masturbate and achieve orgasms is not the automatic given it is with boys. We learn right out of puberty and are driven by testosterone and other factors to do it. Girls, not so much, often learning later in life if at all. This more of a concerted effort for the female of the species.

If I have not answered your question, please clarify. In the meantime, please read the articles on all this found in the Index.

I hope this is of help. Got questions??

[XXStephXX]

No I Dont MAsterbate I Have Tried But I Dont Seem To Get Anything Out Of It If You Know Whta I Mean :/

[EvilEvilKitten]

1. you need to talk to a sex therapist about how you view sex and also 2. get yourself into masturbation

The hardware is there and the software is there but in women they aren't connected UNTIL they have masturbated to orgasm.

Clear your mind, focus upon feeling soooo relaxed - it is a hot day, you're lying on a floating raft, gently riding the swells, the sun is shinging, there's a light breeze

just let your hand stray and relax into the orgasm - letting the feelings roll on through you.

Train your brain.

[XXStephXX]

Tar Ill try the

[dancingdoc2]

Once again, please read the how-to article listed in the Index that describes one method for learning how to achieve a climax.

In addition, please read the other articles discussing the matter of the female "O". Please reread the replies, above.

Knowledge is empowering.