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Been a while since I've been in here. Quick update, T and I are still living together and loving life.
We are pretty mutual about it. We each have nights that all we want is to pleasure the other, and we each have nights that we crave the release for ourselves. Sometimes one will surprise the other by being horny to GIVE, and sometimes the desire is to RECEIVE, and sometimes it's both with the equal desire to do it all. In any of those situations, it's rare for one to find the other unwilling to participate. Sex...in fact, relationships period...are partnerships. It's all about give and take and working together.
Whether in bed or not, any person in a meaningful relationships should have moments where what they do is for the sole purpose of pleasing their mate. Similarly, any person in such a relationship should be able to desire that type of pleasure for themselves. It's just that-desire, not selfishness, and there's nothing wrong with it.
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