Taking pictures, need help ASAP

[TallieFairey]

Hey,
So i've started dating this guy...kinda. He send me a picture of his dick & now his requesting pictures of my breasts, I don't really want to do it cos i've never done it before & feel insecure. However i feel like i have to cos fair is fair. The only reason I dont want to is because I'm scared & I am a newbie to picture taking. (I wont put my face in the picture, incase we have an argument & he puts them up, & i can deny them being me)
He says he wants breasts. How can I take sexy but not sluty picture, not sure how the hell to do that.
I really need advice, cos he keeps talking about it ALL the time. Beginning to get irritating.

[nuttychick]

Just because he sends you a pic does not mean you have to send one back.
Fair is fair? ummmm no it isnt .. if he jumps off a bridge are you going to do the same?

You are kinda dating this guy? seems to me if you are not sure if you are even dating then this is a huge mistake to even think of taking a pic.

I wont put my face in the picture, incase we have an argument & he puts them up, & i can deny them being me) .....If this is your instinct then don't even bother with the photo ...

, cos he keeps talking about it ALL the time. Beginning to get irritating...... Tell him
You Do not want to do this and why. If he keeps on about it he has little respect for you and needs to grow up if he intends to have a relationship with you.

I have had many many guys send me pics of their penis and I do not ever send them anything in return, Why? because I don't want to.. and really who wants pics of themselves circulating around the world (even if they don't have a face on them)

[EvilEvilKitten]

This is not what "fair is fair" means. "Fair is fair" is about sharing and reciprocating in a relationship - not tit for tat.

Now then - you have to decide if this guy is worth you facing up to your insecurities regarding your body.

My answer would be no. I would not even discuss it. Why? Because hes' NAGGING about it. He's being PUSHY. Guys really should get over that sort of thing. You can help him do so by telling him to stop begging.

Only you can decide if this behavior (what will he nag for next?) is a deal-breaker or not.

[dlb]

Originally Posted by TallieFairey

He send me a picture of his dick & now his requesting pictures of my breasts.I wont put my face in the picture, incase we have an argument & he puts them up, & i can deny them being me...
I really need advice, cos he keeps talking about it ALL the time. Beginning to get irritating.

You already make the best argument for not giving him pictures of your breasts. He might post them. In fact he might show the pics to his friends. You said you have "started dating this guy...kinda." You are not even sure of your relationship status with him!

If you have the slightest suspicion that he is going to share nude pics of you with others, even without your face, why would you go along? Have you no self esteem?

[Brandye]

If someone wants to see mine, I'll show them long before risking some amateur posting them anywhere. And if some guy sent me a pic of his penis, his number would be erased and blocked.

[dlb]

I would rather show mine in person anyway!

[DickDragon]

Ill tell you as a guy, yes it can be nice to have pics of your g/f or wife or friends breasts or vaginas or whatever have you. But thats if its a long term thing. Not a "kinda" thing. Especially if your young. It could potentially turn into a bragging thing to his buddies. Back before I was married and I was dating, before I'd send any pics of me to my g/f I'd ask if she would want to exchange pics. If she did we'd swap. If she really wasn't comfortable with it, but was entertaining the idea I'd send her one of me kind of like a I'm ok with it sort of thing. But I'd never push for her to return the favor. She could call it a gift from me of sorts.

But if you think, or are uncomfortable with the whole idea, then forget it. And if he's already sending pics of his penis in the "kinda" stage, then maybe he's not exactly the right one for a relationship. Especially if he can't understand or appreciate your stance on the matter.

[dancingdoc2]

One more thing you need to know and understand about boys is that they like to share with friends. Now extrapolate this, you share a picture with your b/f, he is so proud and pleased and so shares with one or two of his friends; they think this is just so cool that you would send a nude or otherwise provocative image of yourself that they share with some or all of their friends, ad infinitum.

Now your picture, no matter what the subject is spread all around the internet and will be out there for decades to come. Worse yet is that all of these friends of friends are probably in your school. Girls love gossiping. Need I say more? No person needs this hanging over their reputations or friendships. You'll certainly learn very quickly who your true friends are.

If you want to send a picture, then send a picture of your cat along with the tag line that you are the "cat's meow"!

[SnakeBabe]

If you are not 100 % comfortable with it then don't do it.

Hugs and Hissessss,
Maria

[vibrator]

Don't send the pictures if your not into it. He doesn't really need them and if your not comfortable you should not do it.