SEXUALLY TURN him on Differently Question?

[childgoddess]

Hey There

I am 19 yrs old and my bf is 21 yrs old.
I find that its hard to try to turn on my boyfriend with different foreplay techniques. I've tried sucking him on his adams apple, bitting his cheek, teasing him with light strokes on his stomah. These are some things that already turn him on good; blowing hot air into/ nibbing on his ear, french kissing him, kissing him down his chest and belly, teasing him by not touching his penis when when my hand is down his pants, rubbing my chest, body against him, sucking on his neck, letting him fuck in the ass with a Dilido. I wanna find some new things to do besides doing this stuff to him lots. I wanna spice things up. Any suggestions?

[Rouge]

visual stimulation. Playing with yourself, even over your clothing works wonders.

[Ephemera]

Words, words, words.

Master talking dirty.

You know what he wants sexually, so take some time to think about what he wants and then try to translate it into words.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Tell him no. Tell him not yet. Make him wait. Do this while wearing nothing but a pair of stilletos.

[FreeMadness]

Dirty talk is always nice. If he doesn't seem to get into it, move on.

As for Evil's suggestion, there's a certain timing necessary for that. Wait too long, or not long enough, and the sex will be dull. But try some slow stripping, or undressing him very slowly and deliberately, and a little playing with yourself can go a long way toward making the blood boil.

[EvilEvilKitten]

No - the idea is to stop "pleasing him" and begin pleasing herself using him. The idea is to make him wonder if he'll survive this sexual episode. An unbridled woman is a wonderful she-beast!

MAKE HIM SWEAT

And sex if done right is never ever dull.

[Buck Naked]

Everytime my wife buys new underwear I get a fashion show and by the end I'm dying. The topper is usually I get the show earlier in the evening and we wait until later for the main event. The build up is ridiculous. The images floating in my head make the couple of hours seems like days.

[KrystalG]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Tell him no. Tell him not yet. Make him wait. Do this while wearing nothing but a pair of stilletos.

I've found that some guys particularly like a certain article of clothing. you could subtly find out what he likes (I've seen fedoras, scarves, cutoff denim shorts) and use that to your advantage. But stilletos does seem to be a universal thing

[EvilEvilKitten]

Yes, because they do amazing things for your legs and while sexy, they also hint at danger - a very intoxicating mixture.

[childgoddess]

Please don't be saying that stuff buck naked. I am romantically involved with somebody....