I can't do it.

[caustic_carcinogen]

I can't make my boyfriend orgasm from just fellatio, or just giving him head.

We have a really open relationship and make it a point to talk about sex, our likes and dislikes, bad experiences, ect. He said the first time he received head was a bad experience for him. I asked him if it was the bad experience that was holding him back and he said no, he just couldn't be pushed over the edge. I've read the section on the main page about fellatio and I've downloaded and read some ebooks about it too. I always try to try new techniques. I focus on pleasing him physically and emotionally, but he just never orgasms.

Do any of you guys have any techniques under the table of orally pleasing your man?

[matt44]

i dont know how he would react to the idea of anal play but if he is willing to try that should push him over the edge but other than that i would say just play with the balls and if he cant get off dont think your doing somthing wrong

[caustic_carcinogen]

I've tried sucking on the head while stimulating the shaft, which he seems to enjoy quite well, but I guess it just doesn't feel good enough. I've also tried to play with his testicles, but he doesn't like that too well. We've talked about anal play, but never really considered it. I've tried sensually massage his inner thighs and work my way up to the whole shabang, but even that isn't enough.

[illeashu]

hmmm , caustic, have you been able to get other men to orgasm by just giving them head? i think the first thing id try now as im older is ignore it totally, like it offended me, not literally, but dont get your mouth too close to his shaft or balls, stop just below his button or something like that, the when he desires it you can let him lead the way to his oral exam, just a suggestion

[dancingdoc2]

How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?

[Aussie_Foot_Lover]

Wow, ladies seem to be getting really hung up about not being able to make their man cum from oral.

Although oral is a great thing, I wouldn't get too beaten up about the whole thing. If you've done your research & tried a few different things with no luck, then maybe just use oral as foreplay.

I assuming you have no problem with making him cum in other ways

Just remember, everyone is different. I think your doing the right thing by doing your research & asking for help