Girl Facial Hair Major Turnoff

[calipirate]

I don't have many turnoffs, but lately, my gf of a few years has decided that she no longer wants to wax her upper lip. Unfortunately, that is one of my hugest turnoffs.

I don't mind if a girl doesn't shave her legs, wax chin, etc. but for some reason, the upper lip is a big one for me. I brought it up with her before, and she said "too bad"...

So I'm not pressing the issue anymore, but I find that I can't get myself turned on at all around her.

Any suggestions?

[Buck Naked]

If it will affect how you see her you have to tell her. I know my wife and I tell each other everything before it's escalates into a problem. If something was to hinder my wife's attaction to me I would change it pretty quick. My wife has a similar view.

[Sekcboi85]

I agree with you that it is a major turn off man. I once a girl practically begging me to sleep with her and I just couldn't get past the little bit of facial hair on her upper lip. I hated that fact cuz I am not shallow by any means but it was just something I couldn't get past.

Anyway, I agree that you need to really talk to her about it and hopefully she will understand. Like Buck said, if it is killing the attraction then it is a big issue.

[calipirate]

That's the problem... I did talk to her, I approached it very gently, and for a while, she continued to wax, but lately she doesn't seem to care, even when i told her it's one of my biggest turnoffs.

[Buck Naked]

Without knowing her, it's hard to know what's going through her head. The question that keeps running my head..."Is she trying to tell you something?". It seems odd that anyone would become unattractive to their partner by design.

Another suggestion is to ask what you can do to make yourself more attractive to her. Kinda like a trade. I remember my wife and I talking about our sexual frequency and I asked what I could do to help elevate her sex drive. To my surprise she said "help out around the house". I was puzzled how one affected the other, but I was game. To my shock, it worked, and worked well. I've never stopped doing my fair share and our sex life has never been better. It makes sense. Now, she doesn't have as much to worry about so she is free to enjoy her spare time.

I guess the point I'm making is you shouldn't make it all about what she's doing (or not doing). Maybe if you do something that would be just for her, she may return the favor.

[Dbondjuk]

Man, I hate that crap. It makes them look so weird and like manly sometimes, its just ew.

[dancingdoc2]

One reason she may not enjoy waxing is because it hurts. True or not, she does use a razor on legs and under arms, so why not the upper lip?

[calipirate]

I think it does hurt her, and is why she hates it so much, but unfortunately, that doesn't stop the fact that it's a major turnoff.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Look the answer is simple - either get over it or get a new gf and yes waxing hurts like hell. If in doubt try it yoursself on your beard.

[Brandye]

I grow hair; we all do. Some of it, I choose to limit and some I do not. If a b/f does not like my choices he is free to find someone who does it as he wishes.

Once again, EEK has the answer