Too big

[sparkygirl]

Ok, my boy-friend's penis is way too big and he said I have a tendancy to bite. He said it doesn't hurt but it turns him off a lil bit. I can take him pretty deep, but I have a tiny mouth and my teeth scrape. I love giving him oral, but I don't wanna keep biting him. I use my hand a lot too, but that bores me. LOL

Any advice on what I can do to keep from biting him?

(Sorry if this is anywhere else, I didn't really look elsewhere.)

Thanks!

[dlb]

The hand bores me too. Use your hand to caress his thighs, buttocks, abdomen, chest, SCROTUM, and pretty much anywhere else. I hate having my penis stroked during what should be oral sex, but using a hand to stready the penis (not too tight) is good, Also, don't know about your BF, I like some light pressure from the hand on my pubis at the base of me penis. Pull your upper lip in over your top teeth and use your tongue to cover the lower teeth. It will make gliding easier. Also don't limit yourself, or your BF, to just head bobbing. Lick and flick your tongue along the length, especially the underside, and around the glans or head if you wish. Gently sucking the underside can produce wonderful feelings.

OK that's some very basic info. Now you need to check the index (hehe I am dancingdoc pro tem tonight and search the myriad posts for the subject or fellatio, oral sex, blow jobs etc.

best wishes,
dlb

[dancingdoc2]

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> "LOL"? Do you mean "laughing out loud" or "Lots of Luck?" Just trying to get a sense of your concern.

>I use my hand a lot too, but that bores me. LOL

Please read the section on the "dynamic duo". This technique should not bore you because of the reaction you will get from him.

If you are using your hand and becoming bored, then my question is how aroused is your b/f when you begin? The more aroused he is from all the making out and fooling around that goes on beforehand, the less you will probably have to use your hand. Either way, what you are after is his reaction to what you are doing.

[sparkygirl]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

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> "LOL"? Do you mean "laughing out loud" or "Lots of Luck?" Just trying to get a sense of your concern.

>I use my hand a lot too, but that bores me. LOL

Please read the section on the "dynamic duo". This technique should not bore you because of the reaction you will get from him.

If you are using your hand and becoming bored, then my question is how aroused is your b/f when you begin? The more aroused he is from all the making out and fooling around that goes on beforehand, the less you will probably have to use your hand. Either way, what you are after is his reaction to what you are doing.

HI! I meant "laughing out loud".

Anyways, he does enjoy oral sex and he does get off, sometimes faster than other times, but I know he likes to hold until we can have actual intercourse. He's a lot bigger than most men and I can get maybe just the tip of his penis and a lil bit in my mouth. It's hard to explain. But I try to limit my hand use, but sometimes that's what I have to do.

Thank you dlb. I never thought about the upper lip over my teeth. I do use my tongue over my bottom teeth.

[Aussie_Foot_Lover]

I'm actually a fan of hands being used during a blowjob, afterall, isn't the whole idea of a blow job to simulate a vagina?

Obviously if you can take him rather deep, then a hand isn't really called for & it's better put to use playing with other parts of his body.

I think guys that have large members (Lucky though they are) can be disadvantaged because of their size. Women are not "one size fits all". So I guess all you can do is your best sparkygirl.

[VanellaSchnella]

Originally Posted by Aussie_Foot_Lover

I'm actually a fan of hands being used during a blowjob, afterall, isn't the whole idea of a blow job to simulate a vagina?

Obviously if you can take him rather deep, then a hand isn't really called for & it's better put to use playing with other parts of his body.

I think guys that have large members (Lucky though they are) can be disadvantaged because of their size. Women are not "one size fits all". So I guess all you can do is your best sparkygirl.

A blowjob intended to stimulate the vagina? Hmmm not the blowjob i know

[rosebanks]

Originally Posted by VanellaSchnella

A blowjob intended to stimulate the vagina? Hmmm not the blowjob i know

they may have meant simulate...

[rosebanks]

if thats a word! it doesnt seem right now.

[Rouge]

Originally Posted by VanellaSchnella

A blowjob intended to stimulate the vagina? Hmmm not the blowjob i know

He did in fact say "simulate" is in, to immitate a vagina.

[madamex]

The trick to not biting is, as someone so graciously already mentioned, to keep your upper lip taught over your top teeth. Roll your lips over them like you're about to put lipstick on, and you're good to go!