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Old 02-16-2009, 08:24 PM
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So this weekend my girlfriend gave me a hand job for the first time. I enjoyed it a lot but she only really did one thing and i want to ask her to try different things and i have read the thing on hand jobs but i feel like if i ask her she will feel bad or that she will feel like she isn't good enough... any suggestions on how to kind of give her tips or to get her to try different things?

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Old 02-16-2009, 09:09 PM
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you can guide her hand;hold yours over hers, that sort of thing. Explaining to a woman how to give a hand job has always been very difficult for me too. I'm 27 years old, and I've been getting hand jobs sense I was in my teens. To this day the only person who's ever gotten me off with a hand job is me. Good luck to you, and if you figure out something that works, do me a favor and send me an IM with instructions
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Ah wow so i am 15 and you made me worried cause not having one person get you off and your 27 and have been getting them...geez that must be very anti climatic... my girlfriend didnt get me off but we were interupted 35minutes in so yeahh i have a feeling if we went longer she would have...also her arm got tired when we tried again...
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yeah, the hardest thing for a girl to do is handjob because unless you can perform auto-fellatio on a regular basis, you are used to hands down there. it may take her awhile to hit the right spots, especially since you are obviously so young, but just give her time and she'll get it.
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So this weekend my girlfriend gave me a hand job for the first time. I enjoyed it a lot but she only really did one thing and i want to ask her to try different things and i have read the thing on hand jobs but i feel like if i ask her she will feel bad or that she will feel like she isn't good enough... any suggestions on how to kind of give her tips or to get her to try different things?
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TALK TO HER
not to us - jeez!
HE'S ASKING HOW TO TALK TO HER ABOUT IT-jeez!

Cut the 15 year old kid some slack. Questions like these are why the forums here.
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Old 02-17-2009, 05:31 PM
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Cjb thanks your right i only wanted to know how to talk to her about it without making her feel incompetent... kitten just relax alright im 15 and this is my first time going through all this. its not like you wake up one day knowing everything....
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Old 02-17-2009, 09:22 PM
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"Sweety pie - I would REALLY like it if you would do this... or that... or the other."

Jeez! STOP MAKING IT HARDER THAN IT HAS TO BE.

She's not going to kill you after all.
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Old 02-19-2009, 07:47 PM
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Sorry, I have nothing intelligent to add, just wanted to say that.

BTW, do what EEK says, she's smart!

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