Need help with swallowing "long pause" problem

[tinyclit]

I've recently developed a problem and I don't know how to solve it.

I'm a cum lover and I like to swallow my husband's cum. Honestly, so please no cruel remarks!

Until a few months ago everything used to go just fine and dandy. He would squirt his cum into my mouth and I would promptly swallow it. No problem.

But a few months ago for some reason I started to pause for about 30 seconds or so after he finished squirting his cum into my mouth before I swallowed it. I've been doing that ever since. I don't have any idea why I do that and I can't seem to stop doing it. After the long pause, I don't have any trouble at all actually swallowing his cum. It goes down just fine. I want very much to swallow his cum promptly without the long pause (and he wants me to as well), but I always end up pausing for a long time!

I hope this doesn't sound too strange because I really need help.

How can I get back on track so that I can swallow promptly?

If you have any suggestions, please share them.

[dancingdoc2]

Try raising your tongue, either the tip or the flat, against the roof of your mouth just beforehand. This technique is recommended to prevent gagging. Even though you did not state that this is a problem, there may be a psychological connection. Once he has finished ejaculating, just lower your tongue, add a bit of saliva or take a sip of water, and...down the hatch so to speak.

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[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by tinyclit

I'm a cum lover and I like to swallow my husband's cum. Honestly, so please no cruel remarks!

lol I don't know why you would think you would get cruel remarks from this statement.. like you and probably alot of others, I love it too

only advise I can offer is to lift your head.. look him in the eye
and say mmmmmmmmmmmm . hopefully the "mmm" and head lift will let it slid down easier...

[dancingdoc2]

> only advise I can offer is to lift your head.. look him in the eye
and say mmmmmmmmmmmm . hopefully the "mmm" and head lift will let it slid down easier...

Just to reiterate and add to what has been said, have a glass of water or other drink handy to help wash it down if necessary. Looking into his eyes, uttering "mmmm" or "yummm" as you slowly sip and swallow should make his day. That you need "lubrication" to help get the ejaculate to go down should not bother him a bit--nor you.


Maybe having a glass with a straw in it to act more as a prop would complete the picture he sees.

[nuttychick]

lol Doc i had visions of one of those party straws in the shape of a penis... now that would complete the picture


thanks for the giggle its been a long hard day of work and I needed it

[EvilEvilKitten]

Relax! This isn't a huge problem. I'm not even sure that it IS a problem. I'm guessing that he's just ejaculating into your mouth with you being relatively passive. Now if he were passive and you actively "feeding off the male" (growl give it up big boy) this pausing will not occur.If you just keep sucking beyond the point of his ejaculating - as if you wanted more, more, more - then most likely you'll not be pausing.So try that. Have him keep still, lying on his back, and you just take him over.

[tinyclit]

Originally Posted by nuttychick

only advise I can offer is to lift your head.. look him in the eye and say mmmmmmmmmmmm . hopefully the "mmm" and head lift will let it slid down easier...

Actually, pretty much just that fixed it. I just thought "yummy, yummy, yummy, swallow, swallow, swallow" over and over while he was squirting his cum into my mouth and I was then able to swallow right away after he finished cumming. And I haven't had any trouble since. I guess it really was just a case mind over matter. Thanks for the excellent advice!