How can i get my boyfiend to cum when giving a BJ?

[crazyreader]

hi,

sorry if this has already been covered but im really new here, i have been with my boyfriend for 3 weeks now and i love giving him a BJ because he loves them but we find he cant cum in my mouth, he commented tonight to me that he doesnt get the intense feeling before he cum's like when having sex. so im wondering if anyone has any ideas on how i can help him cum"? i suck up and down his penis, play with his balls, suck the head, stroke his legs. any other ideas?

[Buck Naked]

Pace is important. Start slow with a lot of stroking and licking and build to a quicker pace. When you are getting up to full speed, use you hand and mouth together to create a faux vagina and saliva as your lube. Remember that stroking the head is the most important act. Think of how the penis is being stimutated in the vagina and duplicate that. Also getting in different positions can add a charge that could help things along. I like touching my wife so her getting in positions so that I can reach is also nice. Look through these: http://www.sexinfo101.com/fellatiopositions.shtml

[Ducy]

Have HIM tell you what feels good and what will help him cum. The thing with oral, vaginal and manual stimulation is that they are all different. The pressures, sensations and even temperatures can be different. So if he has no problem cumming from sex than he is more than likely used to sex.

With only 3 weeks of of dating, it could simply be the fact that he needs to get use to it all.

[dancingdoc2]

Please look at the Index:

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Please read the following article:

How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?

After reading this article and some of the others, if you have additional questions, please feel free to ask.

[TnL329]

Me and my gf have actually found that if you play with my balls while I am getting a bj it can actually keep me from cumming to some extent. It seems the more she plays with my balls, the more trouble we have getting the semen to travel up the shaft and eventually ejaculate. This usually is ok with me cuz recently she has been able to get me to orgasm while giving a bj, without ejaculating. So it just prolongs the fun! But that might be something to think about, to not play with his balls so much.

[dancingdoc2]

You may want to read this article concerning the how-tos of handling balls during a make out session.

"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.

You know what feels good when as you handle your own--show and guide her.

[crazyreader]

thanks for all of you that have replied , i greatly appreciate it. sorry i didnt reply any sooner been busy, i am taking all of your advice into account and reading the links.

[suzzette333]

Here is a trick. Let him lay flat on his back. After doing everything with passion, stop and take the head of the penis in your mouth. Thereafter, pull your lips tightly over the head and start playing, yes, with his nipples. This will cause a tingling sensation in his penis and as you increase the momentum, you will feel his penis head selling. Grip tight now and within a few seconds his semen will flood your mouth and for sure he is going to enjoy every bit of it. Make sure you swallow his cum as you may find spillage won't make him feel pleasant and he is not yet used to see it dripping out of your pussy. That's why the hangup.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Crazy - it is not your job to "give him an orgasm" - our orgasms are our own responsibility. All you can do is assist. Then there's the number one way of finding out the answer to any question regarding your guy - ASK HIM.