My boyfriend wants to cum in my mouth.

[marie26]

I don't have a problem with giving head in fact i enjoy it the only problem for me is when he cums i don't let him cum in my mouth. I know this is what he likes and im willing to do it for him but i just don't know how to go about it. I'm not fond of squirting and the taste. He says i don't have to swallow i can spit it out but how do i go about letting him do it in my mouth? Any one have any suggestions as to how i can go about doing it.

[Brandye]

Many women do accept this; many do not. The taste and consistency are not pleasant, so we learn that it is an enjoyable part of being intimate and learn to accept that part. Once you get it, it is yours and how you dispose of it is up to you. Sometimes I keep it; sometimes I use a small towel and sometimes I pull off as he releases.

The big thing is to protect your gag reflex. While you are doing him keep a thumb lightly on the bottom base of his penis. You can feel his ejaculate moving through the urethra. As soon as you feel it, press the back part your tongue against your hard palate. Some women here suggest raising your whole tongue to take it under your tongue. The point is that the gagging is not caused by the taste as much as by that first hard pump striking the back of your throat.

If you want to do it you may want to begin with a dry condom to get the mechanics down before accepting it completely. Once you understand what will happen you can try without the condom.

Please remember that most STDs that can be passed genitally can also be passed orally. And the results are not pretty in the mouth. If you would require a condom for protection in your vagina, it is a good idea to use one for oral.

[FLXBLACK]

Hey Brandye, what are the more common std's that pass from the lenis to the mouth.

[Brandye]

Chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis. HIV possible but not as likely; HPV has many different varieties.

In short, the bacterial diseases are more common than the viral but why take any chance?

A throat with chancre is not a pretty sight.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Relax! It won't kill you if he's STD-free. And that is exactly what you do - you relax, perhaps think of it as a thick straw and SUCK on the thing. It doesn't taste all that bad.

[38866]

Originally Posted by Brandye

While you are doing him keep a thumb lightly on the bottom base of his penis. You can feel his ejaculate moving through the urethra.

I do this part but I don't raise my tongue, I just use it as a warning. For me it is easiest to just let it go down my throat then have to spit it back out. It ends up on the back of my throat anyhow so going down is better than tasting it again. What they eat can have some effect on taste. I will not let my bf cum in my mouth if he has been drinking.

I do love the power it gives me over him. He is sooooo grateful.

[EvilEvilKitten]

NOTHING he eats has any effect upon how it tastes!!
Jeez! Just make sure he is properly hydrated and get over it.

[angel barefoot]

I swallow, if your going to let the cum in your mouth, you will taste less then having to hold it, and then spit it somewhere.

[Gorgeous Mistake]

You just have to be a good trooper and enjoy it!

See it as you getting him to his most vulnerable point and you're in complete control of his amount of pleasure. He's your puppet and you're the master. It makes me feel so sexy and he knows better than to not let me know when he's about to let it go. Ask your boyfriend to do the same.

It's actually not that bad to me. I don't crave it but I also don't think its disgusting. I usually swallow the first load and pull back then the rest that drips out, I lick off.

Also try this with any cum that drips out rub it on your nipples but with the head of his penis not your fingers. I find it so hot and so does he, maybe you will too!

Good luck!

[mintajalepi]

My wife will also not allow me to come not let me cum in her mouth. We discussed it at length and one thing she said, which made a lot of sense, was this:

Men want to cum in a woman's mouth but will NEVER allow cum in their mouths (not from other guys but, for example, kissing a woman's fingers after a hand-job).

I thought about this and you know what? She was right. Most men and (probably) most women do not like it.

Now, she is very quick to reach orgasm (anything between 1 min and 5 mins) and after that everything is a complete no-no. I'm happy for her but I'd also like that little extra.

We discussed certain ways of evening things out that could satisfy both of us. One real interesting thing (which we have not tried even a month after discussing) is...

She provides a lot of foreplay to me to get me to the point of cumming: oral, hands, whatever we like. Then, I enter her. She will cum very quickly and I will too. Now, this is where it takes courage. She then face sits me and I effectively "eat pie". After a little of this she gets off and we kiss deeply. This way, she suggests, is fair: we BOTH taste it and there is no risk of gagging due to spurting and there is no risk of her possibly feeling overwhelmed by whatever amount is produced. If this was aceptable then she would then think about allowing me to cum in her mouth from direct oral.

Anyway, that is something we discussed but have not tried yet - and who knows, may not try for a while longer. Key thing here is for the male to come to terms with it and confront/lose any hang-ups or inhibitions. May take some time, as it is with me, but if it helps a better sex life then I will certainly try and confront my feelings head-on (no pun intended).