Is too wet bad?

[Morbid]

Yep it's deffinately the phrase, the wetter the better. I've found at times if the girl was really wet then I'd go a bit longer, in turn, it's nicer.

[MeliMel]

No shame in being wet at all!!! In fact, I'd have to say that the general reaction here has been the same in my own experience -- when a guy finds he's made you extremely wet, it gets him very excited because he knows you're ready for him... total ego boost.

Furthermore, I definitely come a lot during and such (something of a "squirter" for lack of a better term) and it always gets huge rave reviews -- guys get a sense of accomplishment.

- MM

[][G][u][Y][]

i think that it is a turn on, so yer i think if he said that he likes it then he must cause its common for most guys to like it like that

[Wagie]

Personally, the wetter the better as well! Makes me want to go down and lap it all up. In fact, I probably find few love-making features as erotic. Ego-based or not, I can't tell but I love it!

[coveresid]

I think that being wet is a good thing. A nice wet pair of panties is a turn on for me since it lets me know she is getting turned-on. Just makes the whole process go better. I love the wetness of my woman and love to suck it all in when she releases.

[Blackweb]

Wetness to me is a double edged sword...

I've hard girls that barely get wet and sex must be taken slowly, and others (my current included) that get slick wet from just touching certain areas of the body. I absolutely love it when she gets wet, I take it personally as a sign I'm doing well which makes me feel good.

However... while her getting completely drenched IS a compliment, it DOES reduce sensation, especially if a condom is involved. I know that if I spend 30-60 minutes just fingering, licking, and kissing her she'll go from tightly sealed to opening wide like a flower. Unfortunately when it comes to sex at that point there's little to no pressure anymore around the penis (because everything is so thoroughly lubed) and while it feels good it doesn't feel even remotely as good as sex would if she had a regular amount of wetness to her. It takes a lot longer to orgasm because that rubbing sensation is all but softened out. Sensation is also gone for her as well. Wearing a condom and having her that wet means there's basically no feeling at all.

Of course, that's only the standard missionary position, having sex from behind can tighten everything up even though she's that lubed. You could also theoretically remove the penis after a few thrusts and rub it against her leg or a blanket to remove some of the excess lube, but I'm not sure what that would do for the mood

[little_me]

aye too wet is well better than too dry, too wet isnt dangerous but too try could result in a ripped banjo string lol, although wen ma gf is REALLY wet then it does dampen the stimulation, tho i do think its great that shes so turned on lol

[EvilEvilKitten]

Blackweb you should then cut back a bit on the foreplay and enter her sooner. You can also encourage her to move which tightens the muscles wonderfully. You do this by holding still inside her and asking her to do the driving. These issues can all be managed.

[little_me]

i meant to say that too dry could be dangerous lol

[A Difficult Woman]

I've always wondered about this too... cause when I'm not as wet, my bf seems to be more excited, or at least, it seems to feel better to him. But when I'm really wet... I'm way more turned on... when I'm not-so, I'm pretty much ready to quit.

Jenny Kennedy
Author of Easy Orgasms for Difficult Women, A Guide for Men
www.DifficultWoman.com