Im not cumming

[Yea]

Alright...I was with this chick for about 2 months then we broke up for a month and now we are getting back together and we had sex...twice today and I got a blowjob but I didnt cum any of the 3 times I should of. This was a problem before also...now its good for her for alittle but I end up being able to go so long that she gets sore and cant have anymore sex. I dont know what to do and its pissing me off...I probably came about 7 times total since we started.

Somtimes I get close to cumming and then the feeling just goes away and wont come back...I dont know what to do

[Yea]

Also, I cum within minutes when I masterbate...and I am a -very- horny person. just laying with this chick gets me hard...dunno if that has anything to do with it but figured I would say it

[dancingdoc2]

You need to employ what I refer to as the "Dynamic Duo"--using a combination of oral stimulation along with a hand job. The two together are awesome. Now, having said that, it is also critically important that he hand job mimic the movements you use when alone that are unique and specific to you. Teach her how you masturbate and then guide her hands several times until she learns to mimic your movements, rhythm, and pressure.

Not everyone can reach a climax simply by oral alone. This is why combining this technique with a hand job is necessary. Oral can result in some very intense feelings, yet not be of the correct type to trigger an orgasm. Therein lies the problem. Teach her what works for you and then let her practice and then add oral to it.

[Yea]

It was all in my head...I was thinking to much about not being able to and then when I just relaxed and had sex instead of thinking It all worked fine

[dancingdoc2]

Problem solved.

Yea team!