Her orgasm ruins mine

[tstreb]

When we are having sex and we both orgasm at the same time. She sqeezes mine off, thus preventing me form having an orgasm. She does not do it on purpose, it just happens.

[girlysexnerd]

There is really nothing you can do about this phenomenon, sorry. If your girlfriend is sensitive to this she may be willing to go the extra mile to make sure you get yours (oral, anal, hand job). In my opinion it is unlikely that this would happen with another partner-so if it bothers you that much it might be time to move on. If your willing to stick it out though, it could get better on its own, by having frequent sex your bodys will essentially learn each other and this may naturally work itself out.

[tstreb]

Do not think my wife appreciated the comment of me moving on. We ARE working on it. She does all else as well.

[sheduma]

Not to be like a doctor that says "then don't do that" when someone comes into their office saying "Doc, it hurts when i do this," but...

If I were you, I'd probably just work on timing, so that her orgasm is finishing just as yours is starting, so you both get to have one during intercourse.

[Brandye]

The likelihood of coming at the same time is very, very low. It would be interesting to find out how many people have ever experienced mutual orgasm. Especially considering that a majority of women do not reach orgasm through penile action alone.

My experience has been that having an orgasm with a penis in me has often triggered his orgasm. Psychological or physical, I do not know. It is fun.

I guess I have trouble identifying with your problem

[hugo]

I know that when I get close to the edge and hold back just that last bit so I can get her off to and then release right when she does that it is like getting off at the same time in his problem. In this case if she were to clamp me too hard I would still have climaxed but the pain would ruin it for me. I think the best thing you can do is maybe to try something that will make you last longer then her, and then if she doesnt get too sensitive and will allow you to go on longer then maybe that would work. The best thing to help you last longer is a very thick condom, this way you feel less of her while moving and the friction doesnt build as fast.

[Jm33]

Originally Posted by tstreb

When we are having sex and we both orgasm at the same time. She sqeezes mine off, thus preventing me form having an orgasm. She does not do it on purpose, it just happens.

ARe you saying that when she orgasms that you automatically cum too? Like her cumming makes you cum as well, or that you plan it that way? If you plan it that way then maybe plan to make her cum first then you cum shortly after. If you automatically cum because she cums, then it may be something you have to work with. You said it is your wife so has this always happened since you and her have been together?

[ShadowLynnParker]

I have my orgasm with or without him or her. If they were nice enough to see me through mine then I most certain will be there for them. I am not selfish in the least when it becomes to mutual satisfaction. You should let her have her fun then she should be reasonable enough to meet your needs also. It will all work out.