Best position for virgins

[alexandria]

Im a virgin and i want to have sex with my boyfriend .. we were going to try it with him sitting down and me straddling him but that way seems the most painful .. which way should i start off with ?

[Brandye]

I do not think there is a "best" position for virgins. So much of the problem is in the head and fearful expectations. The woman on top gives her better control over the moment of penetration and the pace. On the other hand, it is more difficult to relax and any tension will show up in the lower abdomen and make it more difficult. My first time, I was on top after lots of planning and self-practice. It was a non-event compared to my fears.

On your back, the hips should be raised as much as possible with a illow under you. On top, the man should be reclining with you straddling in a very upright position.

Whichever, have lots of lube, be protected and relax, relax, relax.

[mrdoc]

best position is what u think would be most comfortable for u. Dont be extra cauteous about it. Its more to do with practice and first time is is'nt supposed to be the best ever. Of course, we learn with practice javascript:emoticon('')
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