can't turn him on...

[diosarubia10]

ok. i have realized something that KILLS me. for the life of me, i can not turn my bf on over the phone or on the net!! i have tried everything... telling him i am touching myself, desribing what i could do to him... i dont know what to do! i know it may sound wierd, but i think it is so hott when you can get a guy to beat his meat over the phone with you. lol (that probably seems very lame, but oh well! ) is there anything i can do to blw his mind, on the phone or over the net? thx 4 all help...
(oh, and yes, i can turn him on very easily in person, that is yet another reason y i don't understand y i can't do it with my voice or typing.)
thanks all!

[iamawesum69420]

That is neither lame or wierd. I love to know that my boyfriend's jerking it while he's on the phone with me. Especially when I know it's my fault. Does he know this is a big turn on for you? Maybe he really is masterbating on the other end he just doesn't know to tell you. Or maybe he's shy and doesn't really know how to tell you or bring it up.

[yetagainsorrows]

Men are visual creatures, so this is hard for them. Some times they need to see something and their brains aren't sorking since all the blood goes to the other head. Ask him to play to a porn as he types to you or if you don't feel comfortable, send him some erotic pictures to use while you are on the phone or net. Web cam, or send picts to help visual aid him. Men need some help some times.

[finewine]

yetta is sooo right. make him see, taste, feel, smell, hear, with your words....

[yetagainsorrows]

Thank you for agreeing with me, I think that men have the hardest time with out the visual. Send him a picture of you and make it smell like you, he can look and smell, as well as talk to you. Just a suggestion...

[iamawesum69420]

Maybe let him be the photographer for some sexy pics. That can be a very erotic experience for the both of you. And if you're feeling even more daring make a lil video for him as well.

[Alspals69]

Well, when you have finnished your pics and vids you can send them to me... i am totally uniinterested with the visual stuff and I only want them for research purposes.

(hmmm i wonder if they'll fall for it)

Seriously, although visuals are definately a turn on for me, i also think that words are beautiful things. And there is something about a lady saying/typing all those sensual or even graphic discriptions that is incredibly arousing.

[iamawesum69420]

Well I'm not gonna fall for that but I'll send some pics and vids anyway.

[Alspals69]

lol... your far too kind to me!! Plain brown envelope?

[iamawesum69420]

Of course. We have to be at least a little discreet about it. lol.