3-somes 101

[EvilEvilKitten]

Hi, Sallie, nice to see more Lifestyle people here.

WIITHIN or OUTSIDE of a relationship - swinging is GREAT FUN!

And if you make friends within the Lifestyle community, you can do friends but leave your 'vanilla' friends alone. Only those who approach you should be invited to hang-out (but not to play).

[salliann]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Hi, Sallie, nice to see more Lifestyle people here.

WIITHIN or OUTSIDE of a relationship - swinging is GREAT FUN!

And if you make friends within the Lifestyle community, you can do friends but leave your 'vanilla' friends alone. Only those who approach you should be invited to hang-out (but not to play).

People in the lifestyle originally told us at some point we would have less and less in common with our "vanilla" friends. Although that is not entirely true, we have, over the last few years, spent more time with our lifestyle (LS) friends and less with our "vanilla" friends.

That is not to say we play with these LS friends but they tend to have less drama, less demanding, are more outgoing (like we have been our entire lives) and just more fun.

About mixing LS and vanilla's, at least in our circle of friends, I do not think so. We are high profile people in our community so we do not advertise our "likes." I think we would lose a number of our vanilla friends if the word got out. Too bad for them!

Salli

[EvilEvilKitten]

I don't actually have many friends who aren't in some way "Lifestyle".
I agree that Lifestyle friends are much less work than vanilla people - more relaxed and much more comfortable in their skins and in their relationships.

They have faced their demons and stomped said demons into the ground!