Anal 101

[Vixen916]

I was just curious if there are other females on this board that like anal??? I always thought it was gross and said I would never do it.. a few weeks ago I let my guy do it and now I like it and it's part of our 'musts' when we have sex. I just wondered if there are other females on the board that like it and wondered from the fellas if and why they enjoy it so much

[flower]

i also didn´t like it before but once i tried i became junkie of it
i like it!

[girlygirl]

I had just the opposite experience. I used to enjoy small amounts of anal stimulation--just a finger at a time--but when I tried actual anal sex, I found it so unpleasent that I stopped enjoying anal stimulation all together.

[jurni]

my boyfriend really wants to try it, but we haven't even had actual sex yet, I just know from talking with him that its on his "to do" list. at this point, I'm 100% against it, the idea scares the heck out of me. I think it'll hurt, so I told him that if he lets me use a dildo or something on him, so he knows what it feels like, then I'd consider it. he flipped out at the notion and refused...so unless I get really kinky some night and change my mind, he's just gonna have to wait until he's willing ot experience it himself. but thats just my outlook....

[Stephanie083099]

I agree with girlygirl. I used to like little anal pleasure just like her, I'm up for anything and I tried anal sex and it turned me off so much to any kind of anal pleasure that I don't like it anymore.

[Traylblazer]

My wife and I tried anal sex before we tried vaginal (weren't married... we were 'behaving'!). It was okay for both of us, but I came much too quickly. We haven't done it since, but still enjoy anal stimulation with fingers, etc. She quite likes to finger me occasionally... and I'm happy to allow her!

[Guido]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (jurni @ May 05 2003,21:41)]he flipped out at the notion and refused...so unless I get really kinky some night and change my mind, he's just gonna have to wait until he's willing ot experience it himself. but thats just my outlook....

Good for you!

If you're not prepared to try something yourself, don't inflict it on anyone else, I say.

Also, no-one should do something they really don't want to do - and no-one should try to force them. Pressuring someone else to pleasure you, when it is no pleasure for them, is not love!!

[demonbuttercup]

good for you jurni... i mean how can he expect you to give it a try and to him the thought freaks him out. considering a male would receive more pleasure from anal than a woman considering the prostate stimulation and all.. but im just guessing. ive tried it once, it hurt pretty bad at the beginning but after it was in it wasn't so bad. as long as you take it slow. i much prefer vaginal.
i was wondering has anyone who's done anal tried "double stuffing" as they say w/ maybe the help from a dildo or something? just curious as to how that feels.

[cunnuslover]

Have often wondered if any girls have ever put a strapon i think thats what there called and did anal on there b/f's heard a lot of guys like it ,wonder what the reaction from the girl is ,the guy would find out how it felt for his g/f and maybe she would get a lot of satisfaction at getting a little revenge letting her man know how it feels ride him cow girl i suppose you can buy the strapon in your local sex store i heard these women domanatrix or what ever there called use them, any gal have any thing on this subject

[Brandye]

OK, regulars have seen this before and I am certain that some of the old posts are around. I am speaking medically and recognize that many will both try and enjoy anal sex. Please, please always use a condom.

Anal sex will always result in some damage and the best you can hope for in the long run is hemmorhoids. The anus is a one way valve. It is designed to allow stuff to pass out; it is not designed to admit anything. OK, I like anal play, especially while cunnilingus is being done for me. But finger tips are small and do not go deep. A penis stretches the skin and the muscles beyond what they are designed for. The vaginal walls are about forty cells deep; that is what gives the vagina such elasticity. The walls of the rectum are one cell thick and when stretched much, the cells separate. This is an open wound. The stuff passing through the anus outward bound is full of bacteria. Infection is often a result. Hemorrhoids are begun and too much stretching can result in "bowel control" problems in later life. It is simply too loose to seal.

Now for the man's urethra. Urethritis and prostatitis are a result of bacteria travelling up the urethra. More often than not, this is a result of entero-bacteria (they belong in the large intestine). They can get there by migrating in the shorts. Perhaps a wet fart or something gets them there. In anal sex, these bacteria are being crammed into the urethra and even a monster ejaculation will not get them all out.

Ok, if you like, your choice. Please use a condom for both of your sakes. (note I did not even mentions STDs; that could go on forever)