Anal 101

[oberon]

Hi Lady Love,

I just wanted to make clear that what Rawbob means by "douching" is actually an enema. You can purchase the "Fleets" brand in most stores... ie: department, drug, or grocery... that have health and beauty supplies.

Most of the time the rectum is clear of fecal matter and a quick cleansing is more than enough to feel "fresh".

Take care.

[shadowcat]

The first time me and my boyfriend trie anal i really enjoyed it...more than he did in fact! but since then evey time he's tried its really hurt and ive had to make him stop before he's even properly in there. I was still willing to try but now I've read this and found out some of the down sides besides pain i think my ass is going to stay dick-free

[blondiegirl]

my b/f & i have never done this (tho i'm sure he wants to) but he loves to stick his finger in when we are f***ing. you should have seen the look on his face when i returned the favor but he had the most incredible orgasm he ever had now he loves when i do it to him esp during oral!

[cajdi2004]

yes!! anal play isn't just for the ladies!

guys if you have not tried this it will give you the most amazing orgasm of your life

[Mrswill]

my husband and i first tried Anal Sex 15 yrs ago. It first hurt real bad.. but over the years of us trying we have come to be wiser in Anal sex.. Its best position is in a relaxed state of mind..Dont just rush into anal sex have fun first, kiss all over have your man give oral while he plays with your bum.. Use alot of lube and when you think you have to much.. use more..But please remember what hand goes into the bum does NOT go in the vagina.. he can use a latex glove to stimulate your bum.. Use one finger first ( remember guys go slow this area is delicate, check your finger nails also dont want to hurt her.) stimulate the anal area real good with one finger, when you can get one whole finger all in use your thumb to stimulate her, when you KNOW she's relaxed you can try two fingers, use alot more lube at this time, stimulate her more with the two fingers.. listen to her body it will tell you if she is enjoying it or not.. Ladies RELAX, if you need to use a dildo on your self to stimulate your clit to keep relaxed, do so.. Be careful guys if your DOING RIGHT you may make her cum right now.. thats OK there will be a next time.. but if not continue with the finger job.. IF she is ready, insert the tip of your penis DONT PUSH YET... let her guide you in.. Take off the glove and stimulate her clit, if you didnt use a glove use the other hand.. once you are in, go slow very slow.. use more lube.. Her body will tell you if she is enjoying it or not if not dont push it!!! let her relax,whisper something in her ear..
this can be a very wonderful experiance or a bad one it all depends on if you are relaxed and careful.. Ladies if you not ready for it DONT DO IT!!!! You need to be ready for it to have Anal Sex.. Guys always use a condem... Enjoy!!!

[Laria]

i like it but when we finish i get kinda embarassed

[Alspals69]

Don't be too embarressed... as you can see from previous posts, its very common indeed.

And as Cadj says, us guys enjoy being fingered there too. It takes make orgasm into a whole new league.

The first time one of my gf's slipped a finger inside me it was a huge shock. But, I had never cum as strongly and for so long, ever before.

If youtry that, make sure you don't have any sharp nails though!

[iamawesum69420]

I love anal play! One of the best things is when I'm laying on my stomach and my boyfriend just starts kissing gently all over my ass and then starts using his thumb to play around my asshole. The way he lubes up his finger is sticking it in my pussy first and gets it all wet from me. I also like when he bites and sucks on my ass. I've ended up with a few hickeys on my ass from that. lol.

[mmparks]

we do something similar iamawsum....
He likes to actually SEE the whole area, and Im shaved except for a landing strip He likes me up on my knees and he licks, sucks, fingers from behind when Im in that position.Anal play is GREAT... for both the man and woman. Now we've never had actual anal sex.. but we eventually will, Im sure. Im up for it but we usually get so enthusiastic with other stuff.. there is no gentleness thats required for anal sex to be found

[The_Tao]

I personally enjoy anal and its offers me an alternative to viginal sex when Im menstrating.