Anal 101

[BigEd]

Originally Posted by miss_lovesSucking_dick

i like it, its new to me because i only try it with my fingers when i touch myself but i'd like my bf to try it with me soon

you are liking it because you are in complete control of how many fingers, how fast or slow you go, if you dont like it you stop or if it hurts too much you stop.

You need to have a point blank and period discussion with the BF about the limitations of the first time, using a condom and lubrication EVERYTIME (to avoid possible serious health issues already discussed), and make sure that you go REAL slow. remember that it is a muscle, it will stretch to a limit and come back to normal size fine, but if you go beyond that limit it becomes vary painful and very dangerous health wise very quickly.

My wife and I have done it 3 or 4 times over the last 2 years and its still a very touchy subject. She had a severly sheltered upbringing and stuff like that is a major nono for her. So I am still trying to open her up to it over time. Problem is that I am thick in width, not overall size and that is like wedging a 2X4 up her butt.

Good luck with the topic raising and keep an open mind about the responses.

[lisa4daz]

iv always felt the same.. however yet to indulge in my fantasies..
me and my partner have an amazing sex life, and oral is just mind blowing.. i feel this is the next step to yet further heighten our sex lives.. im not sure how to put this to him? and what to expect from the experience? is it truelly satisfying to both parties or just the 1?

[EvilEvilKitten]

lisa - men reap the most benefit from receiving anal sex because that is how a man's P-Spot is accessed. Women do not have a P-Spot.

[sexyholly]

I personally love anal and find it to be quite erotic if you have a partner that knows what hes doing and is willing to take his time with entry. I do gang bangs and find that most men like it but few really know how to achieve it without hurting thw woman....so becareful girls it can be wonderful but choose your partner wisely

[sexy69lady]

My bf and I tried anal for wanted to try with him. Others in the past had no desire really. Well he is the most patient man ever, and with that it was the best experience and crave it more. But some men are in to much of a hurry and can really hurt a gal and any changes of ever going there again. I would say patience is the key here. But guys patience is the key to everything that reaps the benefits in bed with your woman. I love the patience my man shows me in bed, it makes me want to try new things with him, and it benefits us both. Some women need to let go of the taboo things heard growing up, and explore what you like for your body....

[777kyle]

ok.. so my fiance and i have been very sexually active for some time now.. and weve done just about everything.. except a whole lot of anal anything... weve done a little anal stimulation while fingering her... and other things.. but she isnt too fond of it.. i really want to try it more... i personaly enjoy anal stimulation, and have even tried penitration and i could handle it, and maybe with more getting used to it could find great pleasure in it... but she is kinda standoffish to the whole topic.. we tried acctuall anal sex once.... and it was a desaster.. probly my fualt... but were kinda past it.... lol im pritty big and we didnt really ease into it too much.. so it kinda scared her... so anyway.. just wondering if u guys had any tips on how to get her back in the saddle so to speak
thanks

[EvilEvilKitten]

777 - why? Just because you can does not mean you should. Perhaps you should show her respect as in accepting that she knows what she wants. It is her body after all and if she says No, then no it is.

Or how would you like being pestered to do something you do not want to do?

Take it up your ass.
Take it up your ass.
Take it up your ass.
Take it up your ass.
Take it up your ass.
Take it up your ass.

Got it yet, guys?

[Mrsdeepthroat]

I really dont know if i like it. i feel like i have to crap when we do it.