Anal 101

[constantlylearning]

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[Danzgrl4eva]

My hubby and I separated and we have since reconcilled. This is something he has BEGGED me to do over the years. I let him try before and OMG it was just toooo painful, so we never did it again. Our sex life SUCKED before we separated we were lucky if we even did anything once a month. And its MY fault, I never wanted it. NOW I realize that was wrong, BUT this was not ANY reason of why we separated I have just re-evaluated my marriage and REALIZED what I did and how unfair it must have been to him...but anyway, I PROMISED to be more open minded about sex and TRY new things, I actually am very interested in trying new things.

He brought up Anal and I said ok! I can't believe how EASY it went in and how painless it really was, sure it burned for a min but once I got used to it I was fine. I am shocked at how pleasuring it is! I never would have thought it would do that!!! It is actually a BIG part of our sex life, not only do I really enjoy it but my hubby enjoy's doing this to me because its amazing for ME.

So yeah I REALLY like it.

[Danzgrl4eva]

I am new here, I don't know how to edit the original post. But I also wanted to add that for ME I find sitting on him facing out and breathing as I slide down I get VERY little pain, hardly any and when it does hurt I just exhale and tada its in!! But I have to take it really slow for the first couple mins and then its awesome. I also REALLY like sitting on and facing him! It was weird how the last 7 yrs it HURT everytime we tried and I had to make him stop but now its the best. Sadly I actually get more pleasure from Anal then I do vaginally, very strange! I can't climax from regular sex but I do ALOT with Anal, I am glad I let him "try". My friend told me years ago how she loved it, so I had to call her and tell her she was right, lol. It is alot of fun and exciting too.

I do have a question, they SAY that your butt doesn't lube itself but we start off with a little lube and like I said I have to control it at first, but I swear my butt stays lubed, we have NEVER had to stop and re-lube. I am just shocked that I even did this because I was always the close-minded EEWWW type of chick but after going through all the stuff we did and ENDING back up together, I am now looking into NEW things to try and bring it up to him. He is shocked too and LOVING it, our sex life is the best its been in 7 yrs.

[suzzette333]

I limit myself to anal once a month. To me it is quite painful if done wrecklessly. Normally I succumb to my BF's needs by having a hot bath, getting him to finger me or using a sex instrument to prepare my opening and lastly lubricating my asshole with olive or baby oil. I don't do doggy on this one as unknowingly he may think that a ass is like a pussy, and I do realize the extra enjoyment he gets from a tight hole, but i will lay sideways get him to penetrate downwards from my back into my asshole and keep fucking me gently. I can't say there is no pleasure in it as I do have an orgasm especially if he is playing with my clitty. One word of caution: Condom Please...(The first time we tried it without a condom he shot his load inside and oh! I had to rush to the bathroom to get myself cleaned. It's ok if he withdraws if no condom is available, but STD is still a problem.

[purrrfectcpl]

I love anal. I love to have him in me nice and deep it is an awesome feeling. We do it every time we get together.

[sexchoctate]

Originally Posted by Vixen916

I was just curious if there are other females on this board that like anal??? I always thought it was gross and said I would never do it.. a few weeks ago I let my guy do it and now I like it and it's part of our 'musts' when we have sex. I just wondered if there are other females on the board that like it and wondered from the fellas if and why they enjoy it so much

i tried this with my gf for the first time last week, and it turned out that she liked it we have been experimenting with it to see if it is something we wanna make into "must"