Anal 101

[saz694]

It only really hurts if the girl isn't relaxed- take the time to get used to the feeling and until you are completely relaxed, until you expect any good feelings. When you get over the strange feeling, it is one of the most enjoyable things ever!

[michelleh1]

Guess I'm the odd one out here because I enjoy anal and have had some of my strongest climaxes. Only time i dislike it is when he is too thick.

[lookingtopleasemymanright]

i thought when me and my man first tried it i would never do it again now i just have to have it

[dixie chick]

have never done it. my husband recently has taken to fingering me back there. at first it was something i tolerated because it turned him on in a big way- now i love it! we just purchased several plugs of various sizes and so far i'm really enjoying it, especially when we are engaged in vaginal intercourse. i'm lucky my husband isn't in a big rush to do the deed. i think he's enjoying building up to it. he knows i've never done it, and i think he wants to make it as pleasurable as possible for me. so far has been a very erotic experience. so much good info in these posts!

[moreplease]

I guess I'm crazy too! I enjoy anal ~ but only in stages after foreplay and
a little intercourse. It adds a lot to the end. It's not something to be
rushed into. My husband is always patient and it's usually my choice.

[dixie chick]

DID IT! Just kind of combined everyone's advice. Made sure everything was clean, took the enema early in the day. Ran to adult bookstore (another first for me) got some numby stuff and astro glide. My husband was very patient, when he thought i was ready he entered my very slowly, little by little and yes it hurt. Boy did it hurt. After a few minutes the pain really did ease up and when i relaxed I actually started to kinda enjoy it. The key really was to get relaxed. This is something we'll definately do again. Besides, the big dopey grin my husband is still wearing was so worth it.

[Ephemera]

For the ladies out there (and for the guys, I suppose):

If you're just experimenting with anal and it is very painful, let us [men] know. Once we get into the act it's very hard to think about everything. Often we get so horny we'll forget to consider the entire situation. We don't like this, but that's just the way it is. If you want something done differently, or something not done at all... COMMUNICATE.

We probably won't figure it out on our own.

I'm saying this on the Anal thread because, well, I think this advice should be applied very often with something like anal. Anal can hurt.

[FoxyLady]

While me and my bf were having sex, doing it doggie style he tried to get me to do anal but I wouldn't give in, and told him to stop trying to poke around the danger zone. I just don't picture myself doing that, its exit only for me lol.

[michelleh1]

I enjoy anal very much and have every since our wedding night over 21 years ago. I'm also glad that I can have some of my strongest climaxes doing it. Thought I was odd till I met other woman that can achieve orgasm that way.

[No1Norcaltom]

You know it's funny you should ask why it's such a turn on for guys. I really think it has to do with it starting out being such a "TABOO" But I think once a guy can master the skill of doing it right, and a woman can finally see what mind blowing orgasms they can get that way, the wilder the sex becums >;-) and if your as big as I am it's hard to find any woman that can handle it, so when you do... WOW, Thats AWSOME! My last lover bragged a little early about how good she could cum that way, and we tried it one time, she got very excited about getting to that state of arrousal and was alittle fast about getting on top, anyway LONG story short, she did have multiples but we couldn't have sex for a week after that, and we never did it like that again, she was just to afraid of getting that pain back. I told her you have to take it alittle slower til you get really use to it. Remember guys to cover your tool when doing anal, LOL