Anal 101

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by Lonewolf*

Kind of sucks for you guys though doesnt it since your g-spot is in your ass?

Perhaps this is why dildos were first invented and continue to be popular toys.

Originally Posted by Friden

Im with you Lonewolf...not one for ass play either.
Dont see the point.

It is to feel rather than to "see the point". Fingers and dildos, yes; penises, no.

[teak]

Is it OK to spoo while in penetration, or is it that in the porn movies the wetshot is just caught on tape for visual stimulation.

Teak

[Dazy]

Ok, so my bf and I are about to try anal sex, hes all for it, but I have only 1 reservation, cleanliness. Doesn’t it get a bit messy when you have this sort of sex? And if so, how do I clean myself before hand so everything doesn’t get all messy.

[Maribelle]

There have been a couple times I've been willing to test the waters.... Admittedly with some alcohol in my system, but I do find it a rather interesting idea even when I'm sober. There was only 1 time when I think I was relaxed & ready enough for him to really penetrate, but it was early in our relationship & I didn't express my desire verbally (I think he was worried it was a but "much"). A few times since then, we've gotten close again -- usually after he gives me a full body massage, starting with me on my back & sometimes fondling/sucking his penis, ending with him kneading & spreading my butt cheeks.... I have less inhibitions about this than I do the butt plug! (Is that weird?)

[cplseexfem]

*DAZY*Ok, so my bf and I are about to try anal sex, hes all for it, but I have only 1 reservation, cleanliness. Doesn’t it get a bit messy when you have this sort of sex? And if so, how do I clean myself before hand so everything doesn’t get all messy.

this is an issue with me and my wife. first time we tried anal, she used an enema bottle and cleaned it out but that actually ended up being messier since everything was all wet
we have also tried taking Imodium (to harden and block the pipes) and waiting 8-10 hours but there is still minor residue

does anyone have any way to clean the pipes "porn style". see alot of ass-to-mouth in porn and they make it look squeaky clean

[Efex]

Porn stars get their ass bleached.

[Sexymama162915]

I love it! But not every time though. You should try it on your man. What's good for you, is good for him too.

[njc88]

Me and my girlfriend have anal sex all the time, sometimes more than once a day, i always cum in there and i sometimes cum more than once up there a day, is it ok just to leave it up there or should i not even cum in there???

[Brandye]

The anus and the vaginal opening are, at most, 2 centimeters apart. If you do not mind the sperm migrating and her becoming pregnant, no problem.

I hope you are using condoms.

[messedupmarriage]

Wow! I've gained SO much from these boards! My husband and I both enjoy anal. Even though I'm a "clean freak", if everyone knows about it beforehand, it can be the most awesome experience.
Some suggestions:
although graphic and unsexual to some, in the right relationship, even joking about "cleaning the pipes" can add to not only the relationship, but also the "pre-anal" jitters...men...when a girl says "I'm gonna take a shower, and clean my pipes while I'm at it," what she REALLY means is "Hey big stud, why don't you f**k me in the A** later!"
USE PLENTY OF LUBE!!
AND
Use something that contains (I think it's) Benzocane in it to deaden the tissue a little before you go at it, and have FUN! Remember that everyone has an anus, and it funtions similarly, so if it wouldn't feel good at first in yours, it likely won't feel good in your partner's.