Anal 101

[Friden]

Im with you Lonewolf...not one for ass play either.
Dont see the point. Exit only!

[Lonewolf*]

lol I swear you're stalking me.
Either that or I'm stalking you.

Kind of sucks for you guys though doesnt it since your g-spot is in your ass?

[Friden]

I have been told/read that it is but I dont know...MAYBE one day id try it but as of right now..No!

[Lonewolf*]

lol dont tell your girlfriend that she might try shoving something up your ass.

So does anyone know if that is true? I think I saw it on Sex Toys and Chocolate, or Sunday Night Sex Show.

[Lass]

We, well, we've tried anal...and haven't gotten far. lol

Everytime he kind of picks on me about I'm like,"How would you like getting something large and round shoved in your ass?"

lol that shuts him up pretty quickly.

[Lonewolf*]

lol ya I understand how it would! If my boyfriend ever suggested anal for me that would have to be my response. In fact, you go first lol.

[DrDave]

I have approached the subject of anal play (fingers on the outside only) with my gf recently and we are working towards her enjoying it, at first it was a very firm "NO" but after talking about it and asking her to read up on the subject more it is becoming better for her. She says she is starting to enjoy it when we try it in the shower with soap as its cleaner and that is one of her biggest issues. I already like it when she touches me there and we have explored using fingers on me and i have to say its amazing! As a guy, receiving anal stimulation while building up to orgasm probably makes it feel 10x better at least! I would have to say too that i wouldnt mind if my gf wanted to do it more often either!

I think it's really a perception thing on whether you like it or not, obv different people physically react to it in unique ways as with any other sensory input and even vaginal sex but if people are educated about it in a taboo like way then they are more likely to be put off or otherwise be drawn towards it even more. Poor education about anal play is a big part in perception and in todays world where it is more common i would say that is because of access to better information. Anyone agree with me? Sorry if thats repeated some points already stated i just thought it flowed better that way.

Anyway i guess what im getting at is that I'm a much more experimental person than my gf so I'm happy she is willing to work towards this because as i've read, a lot of women seem to enjoy it and i hope she will be able to as well!

[Butterflies]

Hi everyone.. first off I dont know whether Im allow to use that as an avatar so would a kind mod advise me if its offensive to others and I'll remove it

Right - I had anal sex frequently enough with my ex of 10yrs - I've started a new relationship about 3mths ago, and its a bit different to say the least!

I was quite confident in chat about giving it a go with him - hes never had anal before. and now it looks like I cant hack it.. hes a particularly 'wide' guy, and Ive even trouble getting him into my pussy let alone there

I really get something out of anal myself, so I'd hate to just leave it there. my ex and I didnt need lube, we just used some of my erm pre-cum?

Any pointers ladies gents? would be much appreciated - t/y

[Deadman]

My GF and I have tried it and she really seems to get off on it.

[Doodlebug]

In case no one has mentioned this, I think that an important thing to have is a "safe word" which is basically an agreed word that you and him come up with that either you or him can say if you want it to stop and both partners should immediately stop if they hear the "safe word".