Anal 101

[Sharde]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Brandye @ May 09 2003,13:12)]Anal sex will always result in some damage and the best you can hope for in the long run is hemmorhoids. The anus is a one way valve. It is designed to allow stuff to pass out; it is not designed to admit anything. OK, I like anal play, especially while cunnilingus is being done for me. But finger tips are small and do not go deep. A penis stretches the skin and the muscles beyond what they are designed for. The vaginal walls are about forty cells deep; that is what gives the vagina such elasticity. The walls of the rectum are one cell thick and when stretched much, the cells separate. This is an open wound. The stuff passing through the anus outward bound is full of bacteria. Infection is often a result. Hemorrhoids are begun and too much stretching can result in "bowel control" problems in later life. It is simply too loose to seal.

Now for the man's urethra. Urethritis and prostatitis are a result of bacteria travelling up the urethra. More often than not, this is a result of entero-bacteria (they belong in the large intestine). They can get there by migrating in the shorts. Perhaps a wet fart or something gets them there. In anal sex, these bacteria are being crammed into the urethra and even a monster ejaculation will not get them all out.

I can say with utmost certainty that this post by Brandye is largely false, greatly skewed, and written for the purpose of scaring people away from this intimate act... It is wrong to missuse and missrepresent your knowledge of fancy medial terminology to deter others from trying something you obviously have a personal bias against...

Having a medical background myself and being someone who both enjoys anal stimulation and has done much research on it, I can say that DONE CORRECTLY, there are no adverse affects on the body that can be attributed to properly perfomed anal sex...

Throwing around words like Prostatitis and using examples of 60 year olds getting hemeroids is completely irresponsible on your part and is missleading to those accually looking for correct and useful information here... Besides that it is a proven fact that every male will develop some form of prosate problems during the course of their lives, provided they live long enough... Do not falsely throw around information like this and call it fact...

For those looking for some REAL and USEFUL information, please feel free to checkout the medical links below for further reading from an unbiased source...

http://www.allsexguide.com/questions_about_anal_sex.htm
http://www.sexuality.org/morin98.html
http://www.sexuality.org/authors/morin/analrule.html
http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/elffaq.html#analsex
http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/aanal.html

Other Sources About Anal Sex:

http://www.sexhealth.org/bettersex/anal.shtml
http://www.sexinfo101.com/ic_anal.shtml
http://sexuality.about.com/od/analsex/
http://sexforums.com/showthread.php?t=2109
http://www.analsexyes.com/
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sext...,,4tgx,00.html

Also checkout the book "The Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex For Women" and the review about it below:

http://www.sexuality.org/authors/syrinx/rvugasw.html

Hopefully this useful post will help and serve to help spice up your sex life in a fun and healthy way...

[jayda]

I love it!!!
Orgasm every time!!!
Use lots of lube though.

[aussie_gal]

I really like it. I use to feel guilty about it and went like 3 years without much anal stimulation, but just recently i've been getting so horny (especially during my period) and so i've rekindled my love of it! To the point where I bought a new dildo, and have started to use my old one for anal use only. Feels just like a penis, and it turns me on imagining someone watching me. Seeing as though I don't have a boyfriend, I don't have much choice but to resort to toys! but hey I have a lot of fun!

[Lass]

i use to think the thought was gross...and then one time while having sex my bf was like, "you wanna try?" im like,"sure." only problem: we had no lube. it hurt like Hell and i told him to stop.

the next time we tried we used lotion and it still hurt like Hell and honestly, now I'm afraid to try it again. although he did finger me there a couple of weeks ago...weird, but im still afraid of the cock in my ass.

[tiggerules]

I tried anal sex once with an ex, and never wanted it again, it hurt, and it was just awful. Then my boyfriend asked if he could try, I said okay. We had some hard sex, so his penis was lubed with my wetness, we got some lotion, put it on both of us. He entered my VERY slowly and noy very far, and I tensed up, asked him to stop. We went back to regular sex, then he said to let him try again. He again put it in very slowly, and it didn't hurt...at all. It was like everything totally relaxed. It felt strange at first, but I found that the more you do it, the more you can actually control your sphincter to how fast and deep he goes, AND I have orgasms just as hard as when I'm having regular sex.

[ShadowLynnParker]

my butt is for looking at. It is the egress of evacuationalisms.

[adam]

I find it odd that we're discussing how girls feel about anal sex in the "pleasing him" section.

Back to topic: Being the proud owner of a prostate gland, I fully intend to make use of the guy before he goes cancerous and kills me in my mid-fifties. One thing I've found that makes self-penetration a LOT easier is to use those latex medical gloves. They're a lot smoother than your bare finger(s), so even with less lube they feel more comfortable, plus it's a lot more sanitary. So, girls, if your guy isn't afraid to admit to this, try picking up a box and make good use of them. I also imagine it would make vaginal fingering a lot easier, but that's for another topic.

I also have a question - a lot of girls have mentioned that they orgasm from anal sex. How is that? I saw "anal orgasm" mentioned once in the main section of the site, but never again. So if someone could clear that up for me...

[Lass]

I have a question....is useing lotion (like the kind you put on your hands) the same as useing lube? I know lube would be more slicker but can lotion do the trick?

Or would have sex and useing my juices worker better and then add lotion?

[Rawbob]

Ok....a few notes here:

1) NEVER and i mean NEVER take your penis from the anus and put it back in the vagina without cleaning off your penis or changing rubbers.u can give her a UTI.

2) LUBE IS CRUCIAL! While body fliuds may be good initially, there is NO natural lubrication in the anus and so after a few minutes, the cock (or rubber) will quickly begin to irritate the sphinter. Use KY, or that new LIQUID KY or WET or any other kind of water soluable lubricant!

3) If you enjoy anal initally, the next time u should get a fleet enema and quickly clean out your lower bowels (no one likes the look or odor of feces during sex).

4) Let the person "bottoming" set the pace. Guys, lay on your back and let him/her lower themselvs on your penis and get used to teh pentration.

5) Most women have orgasms during anal becuse the man is grinding his groin against her clitoris.....not from the penetration alone.

As a gay man who LOVE giving and receiving ANAL, if you want more info, feel free to email me!

[Lonewolf*]

"my butt is for looking at. It is the egress of evacuationalisms."

I'm going to have to agree with her. Not one for any ass play, to both him or me.