Female Masturbation 101

[kathypully]

PassionateMan That sounds passionately delicious. Can't wait.

[PassionateMan]

Kathypully ... welcome!

Delicious is the word for masturbating together and enjoying another orgasm together while watching each other!!! And by a fireplace??? Wow! That should be fun!!

For me there's something so complete when having my third or fourth ejaculation of a session. Whereas the first couple times there's a lot of cum that shoots out, and the feeling of ejaculation is wonderfully wet and fluid. When I get to the third or fourth time my body contracts very deeply to try to squeeze out those last sweet, warm drops of cum. The muscle contractions are wonderfully sharp, and I feel soooo completely drained. I'm sure my partner can see in my face how intense these orgasms are. And by masturbating together you get to see your partner cum in a way that you can't when you're in the middle of intercourse.

What fantasies do you have in mind for tonight?

[kathypully]

Two things here. Sadly, my partner only can climax one time per session. That is every two weeks. It's definatley a problem for me but that is another topic. He is not very investigative but he follows my lead wonderfully.

When we have a love session I must say it is the most beautiful thing I can imagine. All I can concentrate on is pleasuring him and the good feelings I am having at the moment. I try to fantacise about a person or something but it's just not in my nature.

Now, I just can't wait to get home to that fire. He will have it waiting for me. Maybe he will feel like a more in depth love session tonight. I sure can't wait.

[PassionateMan]

Kathypully,

It sounds like you really get lost in enjoying the sensuousness of sex!

Even if he only cums once per session, you certainly can. If he takes your lead perhaps he could help you enjoy a couple "pleasure explosions". I'm hoping you both get lost in the pleasure and enjoy some emotional closeness.

Please let me know how things go ... I'd love to hear about it. I'll check back tomorrow.

Warmly,
PassionateMan

[kathypully]

Yes I totally loose all touch with reality around me during my time with him. I would love to think he would be like that too but he doesn't share that with me. He is not to vocal in that department. I wish he was and he is getting a little better. I think many fellas are like that.

He tries to bring me to climax many times. I have made major complaints after 18 years of wam bam thank you mams. 10 minutes sessions suck. I would rather forfiet it all together at this stage of my life. He, with presure by me, is a master at pleasing me. I just can't wait till tonight but that won't be for 3.5 more hours. Kathy

[PassionateMan]

Kathypully,

Sorry to hear that he's not as "lost in the pleasure" as you are. For me I love to take hours (literally) making love. I enjoy getting us both to the edge and drifting there for a long, long time before we climax. I get so lost in the waves of pleasure that I lose touch with the rest of the world ... I become one, floating, wave of sexual arousal ... and when I cum I AM the bursting waves of orgasm. I love taking a whole weekend and just having all kinds of sex .... in all ways.

Can you get away with teasing him much? Would that get him to start enjoying the "journey" rather than the "desination"?

Do you masturbate much? That would be a time that you could be leisurely ... and enjoy drifting in the waves of pleasure.

Warmly,
PassionateMan

[kathypully]

wow

[kathypully]

I do masturbate sometimes while I am alone as my partner is not always as sexually active as I would like or need. So I have a beautiful cyber toy in the back of my business. That helps me. I also masturbate while with him. He loves it and he knows I need much more sexual time than him. Kathy

[kathypully]

My hubby said he would like to sit in front of the fire place on a blacket and have a small bite to eat and well maybe some desert too? How suggestive. I couldn't get home fast enough last night.

Well the fire was lit and he was on the couch watching tv. No mention of the blacket or snack. He seemed so sensual and romantic on the phone. How exciting he was. I get home and he is a wet rag. I went to the hot tub, nude, and he didn't follow. Then I went to bed to upset to talk to him about it. I wouldn't want to say anything I would regret.

This morning I looked at his puter cash and history and while he was talking to me on the phone he was looking at a porn flick. I firmly believe he accidently climaxed while masturbating. He doesn't have a lot of control over that.

Anyway when he climaxes he is hot interested in sex for weeks. I am very let down. I love to masturbate and to watch my hubby masturbate but not if it is at my sexual expense. I feel he is cheeting me. Maybe I just don't turn him on. I don't know.

[Jaybee]

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Quote[/b] (kathypully @ Oct. 06 2004,07:45)]My hubby said he would like to sit in front of the fire place on a blacket and have a small bite to eat and well maybe some desert too? *How suggestive. *I couldn't get home fast enough last night.

Well the fire was lit and he was on the couch watching tv. *No mention of the blacket or snack. *He seemed so sensual and romantic on the phone. *How exciting he was. *I get home and he is a wet rag. *I went to the hot tub, nude, and he didn't follow. *Then I went to bed to upset to talk to him about it. *I wouldn't want to say anything I would regret.

This morning I looked at his puter cash and history and while he was talking to me on the phone he was looking at a porn flick. *I firmly believe he accidently climaxed while masturbating. *He doesn't have a lot of control over that. * *

Anyway when he climaxes he is hot interested in sex for weeks. *I am very let down. *I love to masturbate and to watch my hubby masturbate but not if it is at my sexual expense. *I feel he is cheeting me. *Maybe I just don't turn him on. *I don't know.

I was hoping someone with more life experience than me would have jumped in here (and cut it out...you know which way I meant that!)

(lol!)

What are your feelings to him watching porn? Does he do it with your consent? With your knowledge? If it's any consolation, I don't intend to give up porn whenever I get married. Doesn't mean I'd love her any the less. Heck, I'd buy her a John Enos video as a show of MY love.

As for whether you turn him on any more, obviously I cannot answer that. I can tell you that the desire to have sex multiple women is hard-coded into the male brain, just as the desire for exclusivity of partner is in the female. Well, in most cases for both genders.

Try to find out what his fantasies are. Ask lots of probing questions. Ie, if he replies, "I like girls with thunder thighs", ask him to sit back and think hard what it is about thunder thighs that pushes him over the edge. Trust me, I'm sure the mere fact you're interested in what turns him on will itself be a turn on!!

Take it from a man.


Jaybee.