Female Masturbation 101

[living4fridays]

I used to be *really* insecure about this. Not necessarily insecure about my body - but masturbating had always been a solo act for me. But, after some coaxing I gave in and did it.
Tho I think my insecurity was what made it NOT a turn on for me, HIS excitement turned me on and now I don't think twice about it. I couldn't just pluck a man off the street and get my groove on in front of him, but if I'm comfortable enough to have sex with him, you betcha. Plus - I like watching him which adds to the pleasure.

[monie]

At first, i was too shy to masturbate in front of my boyfriend. Then i realized how much it turned him on, so i started doing it in front of him. Now when i do, it turns him on so much he cant take it! its a great way to turn him on!

[tanagirl]

Well, I'm about a month or so old. lol But, sometimes it is a big part of our foreplay actually. I love to do it. He loves to watch. What I usually do is mainly move my body, get real into it, rollin my hips moanin a lil raisin my chest up throughin my head back, I love it but mainly I love the teasing it puts him through.

[thetease13]

well the last time we were together, he wanted me to bring my toy, so i could losen myself up back there.
so while i was back there, i just decided to put my hand on the other half and give it a quick rub...and he encouraged me to do more, so i did and he enjoyed watching.

it's kinda awkward really at first, but i think once you realize that he's enjoying it, it kinda comes a bit of a turn on.

[total_immortal]

I really dont mind at all masturbating in front of my guy. It really turns him on, and me also, just to watch his reaction to it! I usually dont get to finish all by myself, because it drives him so mad, he has to jump in, lol!

[luvtoplease]

My partner and I have no qualms about masturbating in front of each other. It's a great way of enjoying your own body and being able to maturbate with your partner stimulating other parts of your body is just wonderfull.

[sweet_exxx69]

I've masturbated in front of a man it turns then on, I don't find it embarrassing if it turns then on then why not.

[kathypully]

my guy loves to watch me masturbate. it is a beautiful thing to share. we have been doing thses things for a long time so there is no more shyness. Glad to be over that, things are so much more enjoyable without that.

[Jaybee]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (lilly2279 @ May 18 2004,13:22)]I think masterbating in front of your partner can be very fun! *I think a very large part of it, though, boils down to how comfortable you are with your body. *If you are someone who doesn't even like him to see you naked in the light, then I can see why there would be problems. *I've done it before with him right there at the end of the bed watching, sometimes he would move up closer and kiss me or kiss my neck (instant orgasm. *ha ha) *But it definitely shows them what you like and they get soooo turned on! *You get to get your first orgasm on your own, then let him work on your next few!

Completely agreed.

And, it's a tremendous turn-on for a guy. Really, few things heat us up so much. I would advise the ladies to start masturbating towards the end of foreplay - because once you start, you'll need to hit us with a brick to keep us off!




Jaybee.

[PassionateMan]

Many of these posts seem to indicate that they masturbate together as a part of foreplay. If a guy masturbates to orgasm then it takes awhile for him to get hard again, so we generally masturbate together after intercourse ... to add another orgasm to the session. A great way to squeeze out one more cum before settling down. Do other people do it this way? Do you usually masturbate to orgasm, or as just a tease?