Female Masturbation 101

[Vencedor]

Originally Posted by arutha

My gf says she is uncomfortable doing it.. I don't mind too much, it means I can pleasure her. I think she will get comfortable with it in time.

I've waited 2 and a half years and my gf isn't comfortable with it yet :P

[pinkFlames]

I never masturbate from beginning to end in front of my boyfriend but I regularly bring myself to orgasm in his arms after other sex play.

[actressbabe0225]

I have no problem working myself up in front of my boyfriend. We're into light bondage, so I'll handcuff him and then masturbate in front of him. This way, he can't touch me, and it drives him absolutely wild.

[*HEATHER*]

i dont think its all that awakawrd.. it can be really fun - my boyfriend loves watching me touch myself.. tells me what he wants me to do.. it gets quite hot.. but i like when the guy acts domineering and demanding

[xfiendfyre]

I had never masturbated before. But then one time when I was with him, I just randomly got the urge and started touching myself. And I had my first orgasm, while touching myself for the first time EVER, in front of him. No shyness or awkwardness or anything, it just happened. Brought myself from beginning to end (and since it was my first orgasm, it took like a good 40 minutes or so, haha). Now I do it a little more regularly, just whenever I feel the urge to do so.

...although, I'd like to have fun with it on my own in private. XD Doesn't this usually happen in reverse? :P

I guess I am just strange.

He does it in front of me too with no problem. We were always super comfortable with each other, even before we started dating (we were friends since age 12)

[sehyma]

Originally Posted by albean

Well, i don't mind masturbating in front of him, but i usually do it while he is busy with other parts (of me). I wouldn't just sit there in front of him doing it while he watched, it seems too... dunno. i just wouldn't feel comfortable. And plus masturbating by myself doesn't turn me on anyways.

was your male partner stimulated at the sight of your mastrubate yourself infront of his eyes?
did it work good for your sex life and your sex relaitonship with him?
did he maturbate himself like you? and what do you think masturbate his penis and him to matrubate your genitals?

[LaChingona]

I used to be pretty self conscious about it, and rarely even masturbated on my own, but once my husband left to Iraq that changed. I would get really horny, and just have to take care of it so I started using my vibrator or fingering myself a lot. Then one day on webcam I asked him to take of his clothes so I could see him. He in turn asked me to do the same. He asked me to masturbate and it was kinda akward at first but then I started enjoying it. It felt good to masturbate while still seeing his face and hearing his voice while he did the same. I know how it turns him on to so I love driving him crazy doing it.

[KatieLady]

i masturbate in the privacy of my own room, no one has ever seen me masturbate in my entire sexual life. Although someone was present in the room when i had someone go down on me, that was really weird.

[loves to lick and screw]

I have been trying to get my wife to masturbate for me but she doesn't always saying it is to much hard work but she has got me to masturbate in front of her and i can see it turns her on but she won't touch herself how do i get her to flick the clit in front off me

[Kate21]

Speaking from my own relationship I know its not the same for everyone. However, if a woman is really comfortable and trusts her partner then masturbating in front of him shouldn't matter. Your turning yourself on, your turning him on, and if you like teasing as foreplay- its the ultimate thing, he can't touch it but you can. Also, woman know their bodies and what gets them off best. Let your man in on the secret and its amazing because the next time he's fingering you it feels great. Same thing applies for toys