Female Masturbation 101

[cherish_you]

I would...but the mood has to be exactly right. And for the last year or so...that particular mood hasn't happened. I've been wanting to though...Hmm...maybe tomorrow

[cherish_you]

I would...but the mood has to be exactly right. And for the last year or so...that particular mood hasn't happened. I've been wanting to though...Hmm...maybe tomorrow

[littlechicky]

We haven't masturbated together...but just a question: do you only use your hands or do you use toys/vibes as well? My man loves to see me squirt and the only time i ever squirt while masturbating is with a vibe....

just wondering

[coveresid]

You can do just your hands or use a toy. It wouldn't matter to me as I would just love to see her get herself off. If using a vib gets you to squirt, then do the show with the vib and make it something he won't forget. I love to see my wife finger herself, but she doesn't do it very often.

[FelixLovesKitty]

Does anyone have any tips on how to get your gal to do this? I'd like to do it together with mine but she is real shy about it. We have done it on the phone with good results a few times in the past. I was thinking maybe I could have her start by touching herself while we're making love, with me inside her...she is just SO self-conscious about it. I have done it in front of her...well actually behind her since she was sitting on my face while I gave her oral once...and it was a turn-on for us both.

She used to think (and still does to some extent) that her vagina was ugly and misshapen...someone, I think her damn mother (arrg, what a horrid thing to say to your child), told her that once when she was little and it stuck...but over the past few years of constantly telling her how beautiful she is, everywhere, and that every woman's vagina is uniquely beautiful...and that hers is ESPECIALLY beautiful...she has finally I think started to realize that. So you can see I want to make her feel comfortable and loved, cherished and celebrated. And yeah, perhaps most of all, I want her to feel SEXY.

And of course our relationship benefits from all of this. So any tips on how to make this mutual thing happen would be GREAT! Thanks!

[Laika]

Originally Posted by FelixLovesKitty

Does anyone have any tips on how to get your gal to do this? I'd like to do it together with mine but she is real shy about it. We have done it on the phone with good results a few times in the past. I was thinking maybe I could have her start by touching herself while we're making love, with me inside her...she is just SO self-conscious about it. I have done it in front of her...well actually behind her since she was sitting on my face while I gave her oral once...and it was a turn-on for us both.

She used to think (and still does to some extent) that her vagina was ugly and misshapen...someone, I think her damn mother (arrg, what a horrid thing to say to your child), told her that once when she was little and it stuck...but over the past few years of constantly telling her how beautiful she is, everywhere, and that every woman's vagina is uniquely beautiful...and that hers is ESPECIALLY beautiful...she has finally I think started to realize that. So you can see I want to make her feel comfortable and loved, cherished and celebrated. And yeah, perhaps most of all, I want her to feel SEXY.

And of course our relationship benefits from all of this. So any tips on how to make this mutual thing happen would be GREAT! Thanks!

If you have done it on the phone, maybe try using webcams as a transitional step? Well I only used it because we didn't have any other choice but it helps to feel a bit less shy, so maybe it would help?
Did you tell her how much it would turn you on? If you really help her feel good I think she'll want to return the favour

[Laika]

Originally Posted by littlechicky

We haven't masturbated together...but just a question: do you only use your hands or do you use toys/vibes as well? My man loves to see me squirt and the only time i ever squirt while masturbating is with a vibe....

just wondering

we use both. I somehow like my hands more, vibe is more intensive, therefore I need it more when I am alone and don't get so aroused. When I am with him, I already get horny way before I even start touching any body part.

[FelixLovesKitty]

Laika, thanks a lot for the advice. Don't have a webcam, and doubt she would go for that anyway.

"Did you tell her how much it would turn you on?"

Yeah...did this just recently here. I dunno; this has worked in the past with other stuff. I think it may just take some more time for her to get comfortable with the idea. She has had issues with her body in the past, and they're not totally gone...yet. But she has made a LOT of progress.

I am open to others' suggestions if anyone has any. Thanks again.

[kitty126]

i love touching myself infront of my boyfriend, that said, i was shy at first but after i relaxed and saw how much it turned HIM on i got right into it. Plus, then he gets to see exactly how i like it so the benefits are all around!

[xkinkykellyx]

masterbating in front of your boyfriend can be quite fun .... my bf loves it wen i do it... he says he gets really turned on when i do it and he starts o join in and plays with himself which is a real bonus as it is a proper turn on

try it you will have fun believe me lol