Female Masturbation 101

[star49gp]

I don't mind at all. I don't find it awkward cuz he does the samething. so if he can do it why wouldn't I. I find it more exciting and get more arroused.

[reiahart]

Wow, I wish I had you guys' courage!!! I'm way too shy to masturbate in front of my guy... I do find the idea of it quite thrilling... I guess I'm just too timid... Any idea how I should try and overcome this?

[star49gp]

make sure you comfortable for one maybe don't have like lots of light but just enough for him to get the idea and also shut your eyes and just focus on you for once believe me he will thank you when you accomplish it. I am a shy person too may not sound like it but i have only had 2 partners the second being my husband and he has a very open sex drive so I think it makes it easier for me knowing he isn't sitting there going gross or why did you do that?? You know. Just again make sure your comfortable and you know what you like so maybe he will learn something new.

[reiahart]

Yeah, I've only had two guys too, and I'm hoping that the one I have now is my last. I think it's not so much as comfort factor with my guy as a comfort factor with myself. I'm completely shy about my body.

I can go crazy in the dark, have full confidence...

To have myself so completely exposed makes me feel almost....scared? {things in my past i'd like to be left there are reasons for this} I think I'm just a hopeless case on this one.

Maybe one day though. =)

[coveresid]

Having to get over the exposure thing is hard and keeps many from being able to do this for their partners enjoyment. My wife won't just masterbate in front of me and let me enjoy the show. She is too self conscious to let herself go. It has taken awhile for her to even get to the point where she will rub her clitoris while having intercourse. I can sometimes get her to rub and finger herself during oral sex if I guide her hand there. Love to watch her do this and wish she would give me a good show. She likes to watch me stroke myself while she gives me oral sex, so she is opening up and maybe we can get to a mutual masterbation session sometime.

[AnonymousGirl]

I don't mind at all. I'm in a long-distance relationship, and if you've had "phone sex" with someone it's a short step to mutual masturbation in person, it seems to me. As many people have said, though, most times we would both much rather be all over each other.

[SwordSwallower0825]

Well I dont' do it often, I just do it when I'm in the mood to do it, when I'm really horny I guess you can say, or trying to spice up whats going on. Yeah he likes it...he says its the wild side of me...hahha...like I said I normally don't do it, but it doesn't bother me.

[sexcoke]

i do in front of my boyfriend all the time. he has a hard time lasting so we usually do that first. i LOVE touching myself and sucking his dick at the same time. love it. then after i cum we get to have sex

[sexcoke]

i'm in a long distance relationship too and i havent seen my bf in six months. he comes on tues-> well we both will.... hahaha

so yeah my hands have been extra busy...

[sexcoke]

i def know what you mean! i feel like im taking forever!