Female Masturbation 101

[Doodlebug]

I'm fine with it. My partner has also masturbated "in front of" me. Well, I guess you could say that if you count the webcam. lol And yes, we do know each other in person. We just live about an hour away from each other so we talk online a lot. I have also done the same for him.

[Mrs. Darcy]

I have only done it a few times before in front of my boyfriend, and he has never done it in front of me. I finally got the courage to ask if he liked it, and he said that while it did turn him on, he would rather be involved than just watching. He does enjoy when I help him along though, whether that's guiding his hands or touching myself while he is.

[canadianjd]

WE have done this a few times also. I really like to watch her play with herself it just shows me that she is enjoying it to and what she likes. I am usually doing most of the work so when she takes over and does what she likes i get off so much better

[Maribelle]

I don't turn myself on ... he turns me on -- I like masturbating him & am working on learning to enjoy myself

[melanch0lydreams]

I have no problem with it at all. If he wants to watch, good for him! If I have to do it to help myself get off while he's trying to get me off, to show him or to help him, then whatever, I'll do it. It's not a problem at all for me.

[help me]

hi iam new to this but i have been married for 18 years and i still want her all the time but that ant what iam trying to find out she 40 and was wondering if anyone could tell me how much thay Masturbate around her age we have some once a week and i think that she Masturbate in the shower and on her days off when i ant home i know i do can any woman help me

[Maribelle]

I'm sure it varries ... some women don't at all while others apparently do so multiple times every day, with or without partners Whatever she does is normal for HER If she wants to change in some way, more or less or whatever, that's her right & no one can (or least no one SHOULD) force her to be any other way This book gives a pretty well-rounded approach to female self-pleasure (for women of all types):

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I suggest you try open, casual & nonthreatening communication with HER about this if you're upset....

[Newchic]

Definately yes, it is a turn on to have your b/f looking at you w/that "God I want you!!" look. Plus, it frees him up to entertain other parts. When you do "kinky" little things and mix things up and can lead up to intense, mind blowing sex. Me and my b/f have been together roughly 2 yrs. Seems the sex keeps getting better. Not sure how it can keep getting better, it was GREAT to begin with.

[katiebug]

My BF and I are long distance so we often do phone sex or cybersex, and I've masturbated for him via webcam but never in person.

The other night he was kissing me and teasing me but not going any further and it just drove me so crazy that I got up the nerve to start masturbating and rubbing my own clit while he was kissing me. Well, the results were amazing. He was so turned on knowing what I was doing and he could barely keep his hands off of me at that point. I totally wasn't expecting that strong of a reaction - but wow!

If your trying to spice things up, I definitely recommend it. Knowing how much it turned him on just added more fuel to my fire.

[coveresid]

I would love to watch my wife stimulate herself. She has a hard time doing it and has only done it on a few occassions while recieving oral. When she is really into the oral, if I guide her hand down, she will rub her clitoris and finger her vagina. I will sometimes take a small break with my mouth to watch and enjoy the view. I do keep rubbing other areas if I do take a break. Or I just move a little lower and keep using my mouth and tongue. It usually doesn't last more than a few minutes, but is extremly erotic for me to know she is so into the pleasure that she can let herself go and do this. I would love to watch her do this for much longer and then join in after a while.