Cumming On Her 101

[Asscream Man]

Prudish is right, Rawbob!

Perhaps I can share something insightful from a male's point of view.

When I was in my 20s all I liked was oral sex. The beauty of the woman's mouth talking in my love muscle drove me nuts to no end. The way she playfully licked and sucked at the pre-cum while rolling it around her mouth was such a turn on. Now, paradoxically, during those years my woman was not a fan of cum on her face, UNLESS I WAS FINGERING HER AS SHE WAS PLAYING WITH HER CLITORUS. Yes, she only liked it then if she was simulateously getting off (now she is pretty much ambivalent about come on her face unless she is turned on and drunk, then she wants it sprayed all over her face--what a turnaround!). Anyway, the position I was talking about entailed her laying on her back with the man kneeling right next to her with his penis dangling abover her mouth. Position your penis perpendicularly to her mouth (I'm right handed) and when you cum it will fly towards the left side of her face (NOT directly into her eyes or nostrils!) and, for me anyhow, well beyond onto books, remotes, bottles of empty wine, glasses, etc. This will provide your woman with one of the biggest turnons: to see and feel your hot cum as she herself is climaxing. Umm. . .its priceless folks. And she can do what she likes with the cum: either direct the penis towards her breasts or, better yet, onto her slick lips!

[peachykeenjellybeans]

My partner really likes cumming on me, it doesnt bother me at all and i really enjoy pleasing him. I find it really kinky sometimes.

[Asscream Man]

Yes, I think there is a definite difference between simply being kinky and trying to humiliate your partner. When I see ads for gangbang pornos that advertise themselves based on the number of men who successively ejaculate upon the face of a single woman (reveling in the copious amount deposited), it turns my stomach and says little positive about the producers of such porn. Such scenes do little but denigrate the popular perception of porn in the minds of many women, an unfortunate and inaccurate consequence.

My personal opinion is that there are few things in life more glorious than a beautiful, uninhibited woman coaxing a man to climax while she encourages the semen onto her lips (not eyes, nose, hair,etc). It can, however, still be perceived as humiliating to women, if it is done without any reserve. Attention should always be paid to the comfort of the woman and her responsiveness to being 'cummed on'. I hate to indulge in a cliche, but, if she is uncomfortable with this, a good introduction can be had if she is slighlty inebriated as it will calm her down to the suddeness of the ejaculate landing on her skin.

I think, as well, that it may be potentially be seen by many feminists as empowering because it serves to highlight the complete vulnerability of men as they orgasm. I mean, here you are, your penis and testes inches away from her TEETH and immensly stong JAWS, a potentially lethal position! Thus, it has always amazed me to no end how gentle and stong women can be. I guess, once again, it comes down to respect and trust. Make sure that you are not doing it to humiliate her, but rather to excite her, and yourself. I have seen my woman, for example, reach orgasm immediately after she has felt the seed spill onto her cheek, lips and tongue. It has the ability to drive her insane with excitement and I would be a liar if I said that the image burned into my mind is easliy dislodged.

[Asscream Man]

Also, a note for porn lovers and producers:

Movies or websites that have derrogatory names like, "Facial Humiliation" or "Facial Gangbang 300", do little to make women more openminded to this act. Be TACTFUL!

[squirrel master]

has any 1 noticed that cum smells simmilar to chlorine? odd...i get turned on core when i go in my gf's eye....i dunno, but it was the only thing i could think of while getting head an usually i would try to trick her, by being like " i think u cut me!" an then she'd look...but it never worked another time we were both completley naked, an i gave her the warning( a diff girl) an she let go an leaned back, an said ne where but the pussy(pregnacy reasons) i was shcoked, an then i just went off over the breats, an the eye for the 2nd blow...man i will never forget it

[mike]

Having shot myself in the face and eye before, I don't find it that enjoyable.. so I don't have any real desire to do it to a girl, unless she wants it.

[Vixen916]

since my last posts I've changed my mind
we've been having a lot of unprotected sex {no lecture needed} and he's been pulling out and squirting on my stomach and chest. It's actually quite nice. I was pretty close minded before I was with him. After almost 6 months things are going well and we're trying new things for each other.

[HngLkAMouse]

It's strange... when I was younger... that's all I wanted to do was "shoot it in her". It was all-about intercourse. But as I got older, I opened-up a bit.

Now... most of the time, I feel like it's a "waste" to come inside her... when there are so many OTHER ways to ejaculate; in her hands, in her mouth, on her chest, on her tummy, on her ass, on her vagina, straight in the air as she masturbates me (or into a towel for those nights we just wanna go right to sleep afterwards)



I mean, I still DO cum inside her... but not 100% of the time like I used to.

Regarding the "Facial": It has to be in context.

If you are forceful and impose it on her against her will in a selfish act of domination... of COURSE it's degrading.

If it is something she likes as an acceptance of your seed that she loves to feel all over her body... face included... then it can be a loving act that causes pleasure for both WITHOUT degradation.

Anything done for the "right" reasons and mutually enjoyed by both parties should harbor no guilt or shame.

[SuchaMILF]

I personally like it too....not sure if it's the actual cuming thing or because I see how men react to it....but if it's with the right person..there is something sexy about it...

[oxygensuseless]

I actually think that if he were going to cum all over my face, if would be a turn-off. I guess if he were going to cum any where BUT in my mouth, I would want it to be on my stomach or breast, but I personally wouldn't want him to.