Cumming On Her 101

[llblovesejw]

Okay, it makes skin soft yeah? Same stuff for the face. I am in NO way saying "let him finish on your face everytime". No, that'd be ridiculous. Cuz ewwie. But if you could handle it on your face like once a month, its soooooo nice for your skin. My face is so soft. I let my boyfriend cum on my face last week for his birthday and my face is still like skilky smooth. It's awesome.
But you really have to weigh the issue.
Against:
1. On face = degrading. [usually. depends on person as well].
2. Holy crap. Cum in the eyes is a bitch.
3. Messy.

For:
1. If you're really all about the pleasing, go for it.
2. AWESOME FOR SKIN YAY. This is especially true for a young adult with acne problems such as I.
3. Seriously. If you've got the teddy bear of a boyfriend I have, the look of just pure glee is so cute. Just...awwww.

[raez]

My moisturizer works perfectly well for leaving my skin silky smooth. It smells much nicer than cum, I think I'll abstain from replacing it with semen thanks.

[ashmarie529]

I don't mind it if my partner cums on my chest, stomach, or back, but if it came to my face I would find it degrading. I'm not sure why, almost as if my face is an iconic representation of myself, my identity to the world. To crush someone's identity or belittle it as such is wrong in my eyes.

[raez]

Interesting way to put it ash. I think that could be a very good explanation as to why many women who do feel it is degrading feel that way, just very few have hit on that as the exact reason. Makes sense to me.

[dlb]

I see before me a can that clearly states on the label, "WORMS" and right next to it a can opener.

For those of you (either sex) who feel that it is demeaning or degrading for a man to ejaculate on a woman's face ( or any part of her body ) do you also feel that it is degrading for a man to ejaculate in a woman's mouth?
Why or why not?
Would you be willing accept that in some cases with some couples ejaculating on the body, on the face, or in the mouth might not be considered demeaning or degrading?

OK, I am going to bed now to worry about the future.

[raez]

Open 'er right up there then dlb lol

I don't deny that for many couples it is completely acceptable to ejaculate on any part of the body and that both parties find it to be an enjoyable experience.

As for my one preferences, I am not opposed to my partner ejaculating in my mouth or on other parts of my body. I wouldn't say I love it, but I do like watching him cum and feeling him do so. I do not like it on my face, partly because of the mess, but not really because I feel it is particularly demeaning, its just something I'm not into. I will add though that in my case I think who the partner is matters a great deal. I had an ex who I absolutely hated giving head and didn't even enjoy sex with becuase I always felt like it was demeaning. turns out it kind of was, because he didn't truly care about me like a boyfriend should. With my current partner, I have grown to really enjoy all aspects of sex, including giving him head and don't feel degraded at all. I think if he were to ask to cum on my face, I wouldn't enjoy it, but I might not feel as weird about it as I think I do. There are certain things that I am more open to when I know that they occur in the company of love, and though I have had fun having sex that was just sex, I would not enjoy doing certain things in that kind of situation.

I do however understand how some women do feel that it may be a demeaning act. I feel its something that a lot of women are just not sexually liberated enough to see it as a pleasurable experience. To many, it is probably just something that is portrayed in porn, where often, from a female's perspective, it does appear to be somewhat degrading, due to the simple fact that porn is porn..not entirely realistic, and very male targeted (not all, but for the average, run of the mill stuff ) Too often women are portrayed as existing for male pleasure, and not for a session of mutual pleasure..or rather that her pleasure is derived entirely from his. Very male dominant. So being a women and being familiar with certain acts only really from that kind of setting, it is natural that they might be found degrading. I think if more women were exposed to sex in a way that allowed them to have a more open mind about particular acts, it might not be such an issue. I think in a lot of ways our society is to blame. I feel like on the average, female sexuality is still very repressed. If we are particularly eager and adventurous with sex, we are often seen as filling a "dirty girl" role, rather than just simply expressing a healthy sexual appetite. I feel that EEK is a perfect example of a women who has given the finger to these societal boundaries, and is fully and unashamedly liberated in her sexual endeavors as every woman should be, no matter what level of "kinky" she is into. I think that many women are not comfortable enough with their own capacity for sex and all that it may entail, and that is an unfortunate thing.

[llblovesejw]

Seriously, I used to feel it was degrading, and I still do if I'm in a certain mood. But eh. I don't know why or how I overcame that. I just don't care anymore? I love to make him happy. Him happy = me happy, and I don't find our happiness degrading. That's really it. I'm currently out of ways to justify it. He doesn't do it to belittle me or degrade me; he does it because he loves my face. And no joke, the idea of it makes me happier because it sort of symbolizes that I'm his [and consequently, he is mine] and he still finds me beautiful. So... that makes me happy face.

BUT. Though I am for it now, I can ABSOLUTELY understand why a woman would be against it. I am not trying to sway your opinion or change your mind; I am just explaining why I no longer have a problem with it.

=)

And personally, I'd rather have him finish on my face than have him finish in my mouth. Eh. Preferences.

[den2k]

I like cumming everywhere on my girlfriend, but not on her face, i don't like it. But i really love cumming on her tits and on her buttocks.

[Ducy]

Here's a question that will probably get me flamed but if a man coming on a womans face is degrading, then shouldn't a girl recieving oral not be allowed to come through oral?

I mean every time I have finished off a girl using my tongue, she always always ALWAYS has a little bit of a gush towards the end and my entire chin (and sometimes neck depending on the position) is covered in her juices.

So whats the difference?

IMHO it seems to me that this would be the same cuz it is coming out of her, it doesnt necessarily always smell the best and it doesnt always taste great either. But either way I have to go get a towel and wash my face.

[raez]

If a guy ever told me that he felt degraded by me cumming on his face, then I would respect that. However, how many guys ever have? None in my case. I think the issue here is more WHY does the action cause women to feel degraded, but not guys? I think for many there is something deeper than just the "unpleasant mess" of it. Why is it that for most guys, the mess aside, it is a pleasurable experience (from my knowledge..if any men out there feel otherwise, that would be interesting to know) while for many women it isn't.