Cumming On Her 101

[heartgirl]

Okay, I'm new here, so give me some slack

Personally, I have GREAT difficulty discussing sex unless I'm completely unknown (such as here LOL) or if I'm in the heat of the moment.

I DO like to be cummed on... I have never had it happen to me before I met my new man, but it is a REAL turn on for me. I like it all over... on my butt, my chest, in my mouth, and especially on my pubic area. I also like to spread it all over, with my man's help, and I can masturbate and have a great orgasm when I rub it into my crocth.

Yes, I am EXTREMELY kinky, but I love it. So does my man

Anyway, in reference to your questions, rolemodel, here goes....

I know, for ME, (personal view only) that I can't talk about sexual things outside of the moment. I'm getting better at it, and it helps that my man has patience with me. Perhaps your g/f is shy like I am.... maybe ask her why she really likes it during the moment, when she's "loosened up" (bad term maybe, but I know what I mean LOL)

I haven't tried the cumming on the face thing, but it does sound intriguing... thanks ladies for the suggestions of watching out for the eyes, and how to get it out of hair!!

Personally, I don't think ANYTHING is weird or "freaky" if both partners like it. If it makes you uncomfortable doing it, talk to her about it, outside of the moment, because it might be a "mood killer", but if you like it, and you want to know why she likes it so much, ask her during the moment.

Like a lot of people here said... Communicate, but you might have to try different times, when she might be a little more open to sexual communication.

Hope that helps

[Vixen916]

I hate it. just a few days ago after messing around i was asked if he could do it on me. i said no and he did anyway. he knows i hate it. he asked me why and i said because it makes me feel like a whore. it just does, i get no pleasure out of it.

[vette1963]

we have discussed this on several topics! I enjoy cumming on my partner and she appears to like it! I realize that females don't like it in there eyes ~ i guess i would agree with that but How do you feel about it on your face My partner enjoys it especially when i straddle her face while she jacks me off ~ then licks me dry. do guys enjoy when a girl cums on his face or mouth?

[demonbuttercup]

i dont mind when my b/f cums on my stomach or chest, we do that all the time. he wants to cum on my face but i haven't let him yet. i just feel letting him cum on my face is degrading. thats how you always see the girls in the porns...lol. my b/f said he didn't see it as degrading and wouldn't think any less of me that it would be a huge turn on to him but i still am not comfortable w/ it. i think he has an oral fetish anyways b/c all of his porn has something to do w/ BJs and he always says that watching me give him oral is the BIGGEST turn on...so i don't know. maybe most guys are like this?

[girlygirl]

I don't like it on my face, just because it's so hard to avoid getting it in my eyes, nose and hair. Why do guys like this so much?

[Brandye]

An erect penis is like a cocked gun: you are never certain when it will go off. Most women have had a few surprises during their sex lives and I. for one, have had it just about all over. That, however, is a result of sexual play not his jacking off on me. I have no objection when I get a bit sticky from "natural causes" but do object to being jacked off upon. If I am teasing him with my hair or breasts or whatever, I have to expect it once in a while. That is fun.

[Anya]

I have liked it in the past when guys have come on my face, but only if they told me they were going to do it first or if I asked for it, because otherwise that's just incredibly rude. I have only done it with partners I've been really comfortable and close to though. Something about it just turns me on.

[Vixen916]

I do not like the feeling of semen on me anywhere. The other day my man told me he gets so turned on and would love to squirt it in my mouth while I am giving him oral, but I just can't bring myself to let him. I also don't like when he shoots it on my chest. He thinks I need to develope a 'taste' for it.. I just can't get used to it, turn on for some, turn off for me.

[Stephanie083099]

I"ve never tried it on my face, but like I said in a lot of posts, I am up for almost anything, and I am willing to try that out. I think that i would like it. I would find it very sexy and I would like itl.

[liloldme]

On the stomach is fun, but on the face can be a bit icky if it runs down and into your ear. Yep. thats happened.