Cumming On Her 101

[garbagehead]

Hey I'm new to the forums and I just wanted to ask a question.....
So I've been going out with my girlfriend for 4 years and when ever she gives me head I've always came into a towel or shirt or whatever because when we were younger it just seemed like the thing to do......Well I've noticed a long time ago that I really enjoy, when watching porn, that I really dig seeing girls getting cummed on....and well I guess what I'm asking is after so long how do I bring up the desire to cum all over her? Ha we are completely comfortable with each other but I just don't know how to approach the subject with out making her feel like I haven't been completly satisfied for so long. any thoughts?

[Lonewolf*]

All depending on your girl, you could always try just doing it. Or you could ask her, while shes giving you head and your about ready to go ask her if you can shoot on her. Or however you want to phrase that. Just dont get her in the face lol.
I wouldnt know how to start that conversation if I was a guy.
From a girls perspective its easy to say something like how much its a turn on (for me at least) to be cummed on. No its never happened to me but the thought of it is a turn on.

[Rawbob]

Well, the best way to ask your GF if she'd be ok with u cumming on her is to ask!

Short of that, you might want to point out while watching a scene like that on porno, that you are really turned on by that! Guage her reaction.

Oh, best to shoot on her chest or stomach first, you don't want to shoot on her face!

[Lackadaisical]

Totally agree...after awhile of my boyfriend cumming on various parts of me (back, stomach, breasts, hands) I decided I wanted to try having him cum on my face (something that really turns me on in pornos). Unfortunately, I'd rather watch it then live it, but still...trying is very important, but always with permission. hopefully you can bring this up with your girlfriend? It may be awkward, but if you can do sexual thigns together, I'm sure you can talk about them

[Lonewolf*]

Ah please dont take my advice to heart of the whole you could just do it. lol My friend did that by accident, but her reaction was actually turned on versus getting angry which is why I was thinking that. But yes, I guess thats not the best way to do it lol. *cough* Dont know what I was thinking.

I think the idea of watching a porno and pointing it out like Rawbob said is a really good way if you dont feel comfortable just asking right out.

[Lackadaisical]

(If you can watch a porno together, you can probably talk about cumming on her!) Sorry, I'm a big believer in communication.

[Lonewolf*]

I agree about communication being a big thing in any relationship. If you cant communicate you are going to have so many problems.

[cookiemonster71]

I am from Australia and also new to the Forum, I love it when my partner comes all over me, communication is the key, if it was me and you wanted to talk to me I would like it if you approached the subject with maybe the idea of experimenting, having more fun together, enjoying the different tastes, and textures of the juices that our bodies produce. Get her to come on you, do it so that you both enjoy it. In the porn movies where they come all over the mouth and let it drip, of yeah that is ok, but coming all over her stomach or her back is really nice....anyway tell her that it is good for the skin.

[Friden]

Well just before you are about to finish...ask her where you can put it?
Communication is the key...like everyone seems to be saying. Just cant go wherever you want. Have a towel handy...just in case she doesnt feel comfortable with you doing it on her.

[Lass]

I want on me depending on my mood.

Sometimes I just want him to pull out and jack off without cumming on me, then there are times I want it on my tits and stomach, and then other times in my mouth...still not up for facials. lol. He has cum on my lower back though and for some reason I found that extremely arousing.