Hand Jobs 101

[Disturbed1]

all really good replies and Idea's. The Best Easiest And probably the funnest way would be to simply Show your lover how you like it.

and regarding things that are "good" or "bad" to do while giving a hand job. The thing to keep in mind is unless you ARE using lube you want to use the skin around the glans to stimulate it, using your hand to do that if its dry is not a good idea.

here are my likes and dislikes as a preference:
Good: Moisture, I like it to be fast and Steady, Its best to have your guy laying on his back and you sitting in between his legs. Stopping for a quick lick or suck is definately not a bad idea, messaging scrotum or the area just under them. having her hold her body close to mine while doing it.

Bad: scratching, holding/jerking too hard (some like it harder than others), doing it dry the wrong way, being in a uncomfortable position.

his reactions should help you along as well

[Rawbob]

I didn't read ALL the posts on this subject, but for me, ALL touching is intimate and has it's place!

I always counsel my friends who are new to sex to masturbate in front of their partner the way they do when they are alone! Why? Well, aside from the fact that it's HOT to watch your lover pleasure themselves, it also gives insight into what turns him/her on. How they react to certain types of touch and on the subject matter - how they masturbate!

From spit or lube, to squezing and stroke speed!

As far as comparing it to oral sex, well. .DUH....of course it's different and in many ways better...but only a selfish man would pull his lovers's hand away and jam their face into his crotch! Enjoy what your lover is doing - it may be bringing him/her ejoyment too!

[Pinky]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (xx22xx @ Dec. 23 2002,07:42)]*i don't know about other girls, but im fine with it if i just get fingered

I haven't finished reading so this might have already said but many girls when they masturbate use clit stimulation to get off so getting fingered is different for us than us pleasing ourselves. Plus, even if you are diong your own fingering, guys can get a better angles and hit things better than I can on my own. That is why maybe we still enjoy getting fingered yet guys don't enjoy the hand jobs as much.

[Pinky]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (jerjohn @ Mar. 29 2003,18:38)]hope this inspires a few of you women out there to really try and give a good handjob. I know it will be appreciated.

Man, has it inspired me. I don't know WHY I decided to find this website when my man was on vacation. I mean I want to blow him away in every aspect when I finally see him again but I might explode before with all my ideas and thinking about touching him. And then realizing I can't.

[reznors_bitch]

i found an awesome new technique recently. its funny how i came across it really. i was just sitting there talking to him, half-assed playing with him after moisturing my hands, just to be a playful tease. i started using my whole hand (all four fingers on one side and thumb connecting to pointing finger, hwile wrapping around), and i just started alternating hands while going down ONLY. once one hand was at the base, i'd start with the next one, but tightly going over the tip of the head, simulating a tight penetration. i kept doing this faster adn faster and i got a reaction like none i've ever gotten before. he loved it cuz it was perpetual penetration feeling, one after the other. has anyone else tried this before? i've never heard about it before this. if not, try it. he'll love it.

[hornyhubby]

My wife strokes me off with her scented body lotions, feels wonderful and leaves my penis silky smooth afterwards. Anyone else have this used on them?

[squirrel master]

havnt tried that....but try those massage oils that make you feel warm there the oil is on your body....mmmm....its like the ultimate hand job

[oberon]

I know this isn't exactly on topic, but the subject has been broached in some of these post.

If you are giving a handjob with lube,and if there are plans for any other sexual contact where you need a condom, then make sure your lube is water-based. Vaseline and oils will degrade the latex and make the condom unsafe to use.

On topic, the best advice I've heard is ask him. Communicate.

[SexyAggie06]

My boyfriend doesn't like just your everyday handjob. I've found that he REALLY enjoys it, though not as much as a blow job, if I spoon him, wrap my arms around his waist and do it from behind him. That is the position that guys jack off themselves...so it is the same effect, only with a different pair of hands.

[Mouta]

I know this sounds dumb but...when you recieve an hj do you tell her when you are going to come or what