Hand Jobs 101

[SexGoddess27]

Interesting reading here.

may I suggest,if your guy loves feet, to use your feet. Oil your feet up and stoke him.

Lay on your stomach on your bed and have him lay sideways at your feet and stoke him with your feet. I find that this is another great technique.

[starstruckfemale16]

i recently gave my man a hand job. he didnt cum. does it mean he didnt enjoy it. male/female response please

[xx22xx]

I just responded to your other post...maybe you want to check there.

From a female point of view...

I think just because he didn't 'cum' doesn't mean he didn't like it. Maybe you needed to keep going, but you stopped.

Are you sure you know how to do it? Because honestly, before I had jerked a guy off, I never knew what to do, and that's one thing that the 'Pleasing Him' section on this website does not cover...the basics. The best I can describe it, is when he's hard, if you get a grip on his penis, like you would just grab a pole, or something of the like, and you move your hand up and down his penis, the skin moves up and down the shaft. That's the best way I can put it! Maybe a guy can help.

Now, for techniques, check out the Pleasing Him section on this website (don't confuse the board [this] with the website).

Good Luck!

[mrlink]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (xx22xx @ Jan. 19 2003,17:47)]that's one thing that the 'Pleasing Him' section on this website does not cover...the basics. *

for techniques, check out the Pleasing Him section on this website

Please click on the following link for lots of tips on Hand Techniques

xx22xx, I might be being a bit thick here , but if the above link is not "the basics", I am not quite grasping what you think is missing.

Please clarify; if something is missing, then we can certainly look into adding it!

thanks,
mrlink

[xx22xx]

It may be that I was young when I did it (13). Fortunately, I had a male friend who taught me. Unfortunately, that male friend was going out with my best female friend at the time! But you know, that's besides the point!

What I mean by the basics, is I didn't know how to hold it, or that the skin 'moved' along the shaft. I didn't know how fast to go or how slow to go, how strong to grip it, or not to grip it too strong!

I did acknowledge the link you put up, and yes, it does say to pull the skin on the shaft at the beginning...but lets say, that's not enough for a first timer. Maybe now that there is diagrams, it will help.

I'll be happy to answer any other questions!

[mrlink]

hi xx2xx,

Thanks for clarifying - I get it now!

I will forward your suggestion to the site administrators for possible inclusion in a near-future update.

[SexGoddess27]

Hey,xx2xx
You may want to communicate with your guy about "how" he likes it done or watch him it would be a fun learning experience

[xx22xx]

SexGoddess27-
Haha yea, it does sounds like a fun learning experience...but that was a long time ago, and I've done it plenty since then. I've decided that I like giving head much better.

[lazer]

Hand jobs are great. My lady is good at them, she likes to watch me get off and see how far I shoot. We enjoy all the other stuff too just as much.

[xx22xx]

Well then, considering hand jobs can be enjoyed, (LOL), it would be cool if some guys would care to explain how they like a hand job to be done for them...Thanks!