Hand Jobs 101

[scoutniagara]

Recently in a "largest penis contest" at Hedo II, one of the five of us in the contest, could get a large one with our girls giving us "head". The rest of us, didn't seem to get fully hard. Now, the fact that there were a hundred or so people watching, may have had some influence on the situation. I think I'd have been able to get a harder erection, if she'd just massaged me with her hand. I think with the mouth being so warm and intensely sensual, men don't get totally hard, but with the breezes and exposure of a hand job, would have a harder erection. ???

[dlb]

Scout I think it is a matter of preference, or how one is wired. A mouth around my penis or boobies wrapped around my face both make me rock hard, a hand-not so much.

[lovetosuckit<33]

I like to start with my hand around his penis wiht my thumb facing the head for a while, then when he is hard i turn my hand around or switch, depending on how i'm positioned, and rubbing his shaft with my thumb while moving my hand up and down at the same time. I find my man gets most aroused by this, then we finish with the good old 69 and then go into sex. It seemed to be happening everyday, but we both loved it.

[vibrator]

Most guys are ok with everything as long as your paying attention to the right area. But eveyone is different. Some guys like it and other guys don't. It also depends on the guys experience level.

[Bushidokaizen]

I feel that man may pull the girl off when giving a blow job because the feeling may not be the same. We guys can give ourselves a hand job and know what makes us happy. Some girls (or most) have no idea where our favorite grip or stroke pattern is. We like it a certain way and since we've been doing it for a while, when someone else gives us a handjob, its not what we're used to . so we don't enjoy a handjob from an ok person more than a blowjob.

if you really know what you're doing, do the handjob and blowjob. best of both worlds in my opinion

[smoothwaitress]

the problem with most handjobs not enough lubrication. Ladies make sure you hands are well lubed with saliva or your fav lube. Done right a hand job can be great, especially if you finish him off in your mouth.

[hornybrit69]

Handjobs can be pretty overated in some terms, as a handjob is one of the more frontier bases in a relationship.

perhaps a man much prefers a blow job, as the mouth (wetness and warmth) can make it feel much better for the man.

I usually start with a handjob, kiss their neck, work m way down their body and give them a blowjob, thus showing the ultimare variety of foreplay you can give.

If my partner, during sex, does not want to cum inside me, i usually finish him off with a handjob, letting him cum on my tits, or wherever he pleases

[bearman1052]

you are so right lune is that key ladies dont forget that! just when I am athat point i like my wife to use her mouth ! Why i dont know its jsut the logical next step

[Buck Naked]

My wife is fantastic at giving handjobs. I can't explain it. She just has a talent I guess.

[Stacey]

Originally Posted by lilmisstrouble

i mean i no what a hand job is if ya get me, but how do u go bout it what do u actually av 2 do?? pls help me.

roxy x

I would like to know too. How do you do it?