Hand Jobs 101

[Thresher_V]

You could just have him show you, he knows what he likes and can give you pointers. Better than have you feel awkward trying different things that aren't doing much.

[weasel]

my guess at this is most guys masturbate which is a self given hand job so it is nothing that's new to them or nothing the can't give them self's, i personally enjoy hand jobs from my girlfriend but i can see logic in a man wanting something more than a hand job from their girlfriend

[GotTrouble]

Typically in my past most girls did not make me cum with only a HJ. Since we as guys have alot of practice in this field we also gain self control. For a while I did not think that a girl could make me cum doing only this. I found out with the shock of a lifetime that this was not so. One of my X-GF's used some Vaseline on her hands and ended up giving me a full body orgasm. That was the best eye opener I had ever had!! I honestly never thought a HJ could be that intense.

Another X was very good at knowing when I was about to cum and was trying my hardest to derail or hold back and at that time she would speed up alot eventually making me cum and she did not stop until I completely unloaded.

Last if your still having trouble, and not against the idea, try sucking on his balls while giving the HJ, I love when my girl does it!

[dancingdoc2]

> Since we as guys have a lot of practice in this field we also gain self control.

Self control is mostly a function of understanding what our internal feedback is signaling us. When we turn the reins over to our partner we loose the ability to self regulate. In order to regain control over our responses we need to communicate with our partner using verbal or non-verbal feedback in order for us to let them know how we are responding to her caresses and for what we need now/next. The same holds true for her with you.

> I did not think that a girl could make me cum doing only this.

It is quite possible, particularly if the man is very very aroused. Usually the process of giving a hand job is better when verbal or non-verbal feedback is included in the mix. Because guys have a lot of practice, we also quickly develop a technique of rhythms, pressures, and tempo, that we rely upon day in and day out. If a guy guides his partner's hand over the course of a few sessions until she learns to mimic this technique, then hand jobs from another person are much more likely to happen.

The reason our climaxes are so much more intense when we are with a partner and not home alone is because of the chemistry between the two, including the pheromones in the air.

For more on all this, please read the articles listed in the Index found at the top of th main screen.

[CleverName]

IMO, handjobs are boring because its nothing new to a guy. If you are willing to do oral, I bet he would love that. It feels waaay better.

[dlb]

A properly given blowjob-no hands on the penis, no teeth, lots of tongue and ejaculation well within the mouth- is indescribably infinitely better than the best handjob. But handjobs can be pretty good. Take off any rings, use lots of lube, use a variety of movenments (stroking, milking twisting , not too hard mind you) , use a variety of speeds and talk sweet and sexy about how much you love doing this and how much you want to see his semen.

[xemobunny17]

i'd rather give my fiance a bj than a hand job. personally.

[daphnesboy]

I think becuase of my best sexual memories were handjobs when I was younger, I have always loved them.

[SavannahP]

I'm another one of those women who are better at giving a good BJ than HJ

[suzzette333]

I prefer to give my BF a BJ than a handjob. After a blowjob my mouth does the cleaning up and also it's a more convenient and quick way of relieving his sexual build up.