Hand Jobs 101

[sera300]

Try asking him first to see what he likes. That's the first place to begin---communication.

[Demonic-Booze]

that and keep in mind most guys have been using the hand for a long time so its not that exciting, dont get me wrong it still works and having someone elses hand is fun but still. same general feeling.

[caffeinated_aspirin]

Every guy I've given a hand job to has said I can do it better than he can do it himself.

(sorry, I'm not trying to brag)
each one of them has said they "almost passed out"
Though that seems a little strange...

anyway...
everything I learned about hand jobs I learned from this site in the hand job section...

[mrdurden]

Well I like it. Doing it to yourself is very mechanical but when a girl does it to you it's so warm and loving. My girlfriend usually mixes it with other things as well.

[hotdog555]

The best handjob is when a girl "plays" with the penis. You have to massage it in all directions and also use any lubrication, like baby oil or soap. It makes it more sensitive and slippery and the guy will cum a big load. As for me I love it when a girl use baby oil and she would grab my penis and just jerk it up and down, back and forth, rubbing it, massaging it, controlling it , twisting it a little, holding it down when I'm about to cum, prolonging the ecstasy. I had to admit, some girls arent that good at giving handjobs, while some girls are very good at it..

[hotdog555]

As for me I love when a girl use babyoil on my penis and then she plays with it, massaging it, give it a little pull, tickling it, giving it a little twist as you jerk up. Just keep doing that and when he is about to cum...slow down and stop and then continue..It makes the penis shoot out more cum and it feels really really good..Cause all the pressure building up. Also play with the balls. That is called the best handjob well now u know.

[Sapphirepacific]

Originally Posted by Smoove

I'm a greenhorn with these things, but to tell the truth, handjobs aren't that far from me doing it myself. It's also harder to cum for me personally, cus I get nervous and truthfully, guys can do it to themselves better than a girl ever could. I guess that's why they have mouths and vaginas.

I don't know about other guys, but I enjoy fingering a girl much more than receiving one.

Ive just recently been giving my boyfriend handjobs and it seems that it takes forever for him to cum.
I dont understand if its me or him...i've never had a problem before with any of my previous boyfriends.....
Do you think it is because he is nervous too?
he sure as hell doesnt act nervous though....

[Sapphirepacific]

Originally Posted by caffeinated_aspirin

Every guy I've given a hand job to has said I can do it better than he can do it himself.

(sorry, I'm not trying to brag)
each one of them has said they "almost passed out"
Though that seems a little strange...

anyway...
everything I learned about hand jobs I learned from this site in the hand job section...

well damn!
I need to learn something from you then because apparently im either doing something wrong or there is something wrong with him...
Never had this problem before only with the most recent boyfriend...
im to the point where i dont even want to try anymore.
I feel as if im not pleasing him at all..

[Sapphirepacific]

Originally Posted by lilmisstrouble

i mean i no what a hand job is if ya get me, but how do u go bout it what do u actually av 2 do?? pls help me.

roxy x

im in the same boat as you hun.
wish i was of some help but i def. need some myself.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Sapphirepacific

im in the same boat as you hun.
wish i was of some help but i def. need some myself.

If you are not certain of what you are doing have him show you what feels good and how; light grip v. firm grip; fast v. slow. Look at him to see what he seems to be enjoying; some just take longer since the stimulation is not the same technique they are used to on their own. You need to communicate with each other as to what feels good and what does not. Verbal indicators from him also so help. Without input from him you can not just guess; unless you are very used to each other and you know each other well, then you can read from body movements what is being enjoyed. There is no one single answer of this works for all men; it's an individual choice.