Hand Jobs 101

[Alspals69]

Finewine, I am clearly missing out, lol. No one has ever tried that cream thing on me.

I guess the tootsie roll pop thing means something in the US, I am assuming its some kind of candy rather than a sexual act that has somhow passed me by?

[finewine]

the tootsie roll pop is a hard candy on a stick. My favorite flavor is cherry. *There is a tootsie roll (chocolate nugget) inside. *The idea behind it was that it tastes so good you can't just keep licking you have to take a bite....
now I guess that could lead to some new ideas that may have passed you by.

[Alspals69]

Ha ha, i always find that learninng new things is so much easier if I am able to find a tutor with hands-on experience.

[uncreativename]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Hello @ May 05 2003,08:26)]my girlfriend regularly jerks me off while its dry, and its not a problem, the idea is to use a completley differenet technique, instead of gripping the penis, the hand needs to be light around it, and move and rub it gently, the more pressure used, the more it rubs, and this is what hurts.

i did it to my bf when it was dry. he made me masturbate him harder - he sed it wudnt hurt him and even then i don't think i did it hard enuf lol! lube and baby oil and lubricants aren't necessary are they? most ppl on here think it's important when you're doing stuff with a partner... lol! where do u buy lube from neway?

uncreativename

[Alspals69]

For me, baby lotion orks fine as lube.... in fact it is better than fine!

[finewine]

Drip drip drip of baby lotion onto my hands.

[Alspals69]

and talking of fine... hello fine!! Ahhh... the thought of those lotioned hands, hmmmmmmm.....

[uncreativename]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (cool macs @ June 10 2003,00:42)]Pain during had jobs usually comes from a few things...

1) Lack of Lubrication
2) Tugging too hard
3) Too tight of a grip
4) Scratching
5) Direclty touching the glans head

Since the penis self lubricates to some degree, this usually isn't much of a problem, a little lube, or even saliva could do the trick thoguh.

Tugging too hard shouldn't be too hard to avoid... if you are on the down stroke, and the skin isn't moving anymore, lighten up the grip... The skin on the shaft connects to the glans head and the feeling having these too seperate isn't pleasurable.

Grip can be anywhere from loose to firm, depending on the technique being used...

Nails are never a good idea, a penis is similiar to a balloon in nature, why risk poking holes?

and finally the glans head sensetivity... for different reasons and much like a clit, the glans head can be too intense to touch directly, and can end up feeling like pain. This happens less and less as a penis gets desensitized from use, though it can happen right after an orgasm...

soz to be stupid...what is the glans head...the tip?

[uncreativename]

i hav a story about hj's lol...well i was tossing off my bf and he was like "this is nice..." and i kept doing it for a couple of mins and he was like "ok stop" and i was like "ok..." and he was like "i was gonna ejaculate on u...so yeh" and i just thought "that's quite considerate he didnt wanna mess my clothes! but aw poor guy..he missed out on ejaculation at the climax of the hj!!! now that's a kind bf...i'm gonna let him ejaculate next time tho!

[Alspals69]

He will be very appreciative, i uarantee it!