Male Anal & Prostate 101

[cool macs]

I am very curious about how many women practice anal play during sex? I have never received it as my previous partners always thought it was gross, even after a bath. Have a lot of you guys out there had it? If so what is it like? Do any women have any answers to why so many don't?

[skyclad]

My boyfriend and I have experimented with anal play. *Usually I'll finger him while giving him head or he'll do the same for me. *(We havent attempted anal intercourse yet though.) *It's an intense experience to say the least. *There seems to be much more of an intimacy to it than one might expect. *My boyfriend says it feels wonderful due to the prostate stimulation and that it also gives him more of a sense of vulnerability because (straight) men arent used to being in a completely passive role like that. *All in all, it has enriched our sex lives immensely. *

[Jen]

I've tried anal intercourse once with a relatively large partner. It wasn't the most pleasing experience, but neither was sex the first few times.... I haven't tried it since, but I love the expression on a guys face when I am giving head and surprise them with something they've never had...

One partner had some issues over it, he liked it very much, but thought that it was a homosexual thing... It took a little while until he was fully comfortable with the topic, and it taught me really quickly to raise the issue more delicately.....

[MJ]

I think that it can be very stimulating for a man. It is important to discuss it with your male partner before hand as some might think that it is more of a homosexual thing...that's what my partner thought. He did not want to admit that he enjoyed it. I on the other handwould really enjoy that kind of stimulation. Anal sex is sometimes even more intense than vaginal sex, if done properly!

anal sex feels good. i enjoy it.

[FangedFem]

This has to be one of the more touchy subjects when it comes to men. *Depending on the person its hard to figure out how to bring it up- more or less what to say. *For the folks that feel comfortable enough talking out right to your partner than by all means do so- keep it lighthearted and simple- test the topic water so to speak. *If your feeling a bit conversationally challenged on the subject than perhaps while being intimate you could see what happens when you get closer to the area. *I usually try to let my partner know what I like with sound - I love to "hear" what my partner is enjoying :biggrin: *Pay attention to the body language of your partner and just take it slow.

[Lynn28]

I've had anal sex with two different men. It hurt like you wouldn't believe - although, oddly enough, the thought of what we did always makes me hot. I believe it could be a turn on if I was approached a bit more gently. As for my current boyfriend - I have this urge to approach his anus with my finger, but I'm afraid that he'd be freaked out by it. So...what I did this morning, is while showering together, I took the body wash and lathered him up, and washed all of his body, including his anus. I think that he did in fact like that!

[planetsalign]

My girlfriend and I experimented a few times with it, hurts like #### but yet feels unbelivable, i couldnt take it, both pleasure wise and pain wise.

[Brandye]

OK, first clinically. All the muscles of the genital area can participate in an orgasm. In both genders the rectal sphincters are the strongest ones there and if they are involved, the orgasm is stronger. The way to get them involved is to massage them.

I do not like anal intercourse and do not do it. I love having my my anus rubbed, rimmed and, even, penetrated with a finger or - wow - tongue. My male partners seem to like similar things.

The male orgasm can first be felt, by us girls, right behind the balls where the scrotum has a ridge running up towards the anus. This is a very sensiteve area and playing with it or kissing it can get things going real quickly. Pressing at the same time, and the same rhythm, as he ejaculates will intensify his orgasm.

With this play going on, slipping onto or into his anus is a simple matter. See the reaction you get and then decide.

I love to be rimmed - tongue around the anus until I come. I have had male partners who can come this way - at least early in the evening.

[DLink]

i want to try it. but im not sure how, or how i will know when i get there. and how do i know what im doing is right. i dont want to cause anypain. i just need to know what to do....plz help me!!!