Male Anal & Prostate 101

[Maribelle]

I hope it's not in any further! I've been doing the "come hither" motion Lazer mentioned somewhere here ... but, well, I don't know -- I feel he wants me deeper & I'm not sure what to do Also, he licks my anus & I like it, but I'm terrified to lick him there ... it's close enough I feel like I shouldn't really have a problem with it

Edited to add that I'm going to PP to try some flavored dental dams

[Lackadaisical]

I use my first finger only (it;s like 3 inches long, if that matters) and do the "come hither"...gets him every time. I know when I've got it, by feel and the fact that he's almost screaming

[Maribelle]

"The Survivor's Guide to Sex: How to Have an Empowered Sex Life After Child Sexual Abuse" (by Staci Haines) says that the prostate gland is about 3 inches inside the rectum.... So, to answer my own question, a'yup, he wants my finger in deeper for a reason So, OK, then - I'm going to get some finger glove thingies & water based lubricant as well as some flavored dental dam to help me out with this

[Maribelle]

Heyhey!!! I did it Found his prostate

[Lackadaisical]

Congrats! Is he too? Lol...I know my BF still is.

[Maribelle]

LOL! He couldn't move for a bit & has talked about it since BTW, even nicer for me is that we were in the bathtub -- seemed to make it feel "cleaner" & was much easier!!!

[Lackadaisical]

Hmm...that seems like a terrific idea. Must have a bath together again soon.

[blue1980rose]

I personally love anal play. I have a very tender Anus and is easily hurt but it is just as easily pleased. It took me awhile to get used to the idea. My now ex tried to get me into it for a long time. He go me all worked up one night and gently whispered in my ear if he could finger my anus and I was so horny and had came so much that I was happy to comply with his wants. Well, as soon as he entered I had a mind blowing orgasm and another... It was amazing. I still wasn't ready for anal sex until he got me worked up again and same think happened after about 30 seconds after he entered I had the most amazing orgasm again. He was going really hard too because I asked him to when I felt the orgasm come on. So basically I love anal play. If you want try a small anal toy such as silver bullet. I love mine, makes me feel great. I want my current b/f here now.

[oldkinky]

Many years ago I never in my wildest dream thought I would like having my prostate massaged. As I began to understand my prostate better, I decided to ask my DW to do this. Well I loved it! I find that it is better with a toy than fingers. A vibrating toy gives me very intense orgasms. My DW always uses an anal toy on me when she gives me a blowjob.

[sassy_sours]

Originally Posted by Lynn28

I've had anal sex with two different men. It hurt like you wouldn't believe - although, oddly enough, the thought of what we did always makes me hot. I believe it could be a turn on if I was approached a bit more gently. As for my current boyfriend - I have this urge to approach his anus with my finger, but I'm afraid that he'd be freaked out by it. So...what I did this morning, is while showering together, I took the body wash and lathered him up, and washed all of his body, including his anus. I think that he did in fact like that!

i have about the same reaction as you when i think about it even though i only did it once when i was incredibly drunk. and even with my numb, drunken body i could still feel the pain. i'm almost afraid to try it sober. i love kinky stuff, but anal intercourse might be too painful to go back to. although i was talking to my male friend about it and he said that there is a right and wrong way to do it and he said that since it was my partner's first experience with anal sex as well that he probably did it wrong (not to mention that he was wacked up on alcohol as well as other various substances). i'm not sure if i'm opposed to doing it again...