Male Anal & Prostate 101

[Luvs2plzU]

Originally Posted by katiebug

I wonder the same thing. My BF doesn't want me to touch him anywhere near there either. In fact, every guy I have ever been with has cringed at the very thought of any kind of anal stimulation and refuses to let me do it. To be honest I am very curious and have always wanted to try it, I am not shy with exploring and wouldn't mind doing it for him to find out if he would really like it. But he keeps saying no. It's disappointing to me! I think for my BF it's embarassment issues - he keeps saying it's "dirty" and he doesn't want my hands/fingers to be "messy" or to gross me out. But I told him, as long as he washes well (which I know he does) and doesn't feel the need to go to the bathroom at that moment he should be fine. I let him do anal on me and it's never messy - so why would it be messy for me to do it to him? I assume anatomy for guys and girls is the same there. It's the only thing he absolutely WON'T do (and rimming) and I guess I just wish he'd be more open to at least trying it. How can you know you really don't like it if you never try it?

ROFLMAOPIMP....okay this is GOOD cuz i thought I was the only guy like the above two!!....lemmee let you ladies in on a little secret...my girlfriend has been trying to talk me into this "exploratory" as she calls it and she says i'll feel some awesome sensations...Here's where it seems difficult and it ALL has to do with the "cleanliness" part of the deed...giggles...yes yes, we can clean that "forbidden" area (LOL) and keep it very very clean from the outside..the issue that some of us have ...we can't be "sure" what is on the "other-side" of anus...yes we've cleaned the total exterior,,,but what if?? what if there some uhhhhhhhh ummmmmmm leftover stuff...oh gosh...this is hard to type and harder to explain...then while you ladies are doing this "exploration"...some stuff KAK??? LMAO..might get on yer finger...and the guy will JUST DIE OF EMBARRASSMENT....so I'm pretty sure we are all into trying that anal tickling/prostate massaging...BUT...there are some issues that we would totally have to be talked through! and made very comfortable about...I hope this helps...

[Lackadaisical]

Well,no offense to men but I think that's not fair at all. We can never be sure that "in there" is ALL clean, but plenty of women agree to try (or suggest trying) anal...It's not a male issue alone. I know it brings up a fear of homosexulaity, in a sense, but my boyfriend is usually quite open to things, and expects me to be (I personally am uneasy about doggy style, due to one unfortunate "queefing incident" but I try anyway, or at least agree to.). I think giving it a chance is not too much to ask for, considering what some girls will go through at a man's request.
All I've gotten himinto so far though is rubbing from the outside. He loves it, and it makes him come better than ever...but I can't convince him to let me try to get inside. It's frustrating, cuz I feel like he doesn't trust me.

[moose_hd]

As a guy, I'm interested in trying prostate massage at some point. But the "dirtiness" element bothers me so I would feel a lot more comfortable if she put on a latex glove first.

[shortman]

It's not that we feel we don't trust but I guess it is alittle of the homosexuailty and guy's ass's are not very clean. A girls ass is cleaner then a guys, for reasons we don't know and we don't want you getting youy fingers all dirty and stinky. I don't know, over time I will become more comfortable with it and maybe try but I don't like it now.

[Lackadaisical]

I would definitely want to be wearing a glove the first few times i try this with my boyfriend, because I'm nervous too...i don't know what's gonna happen, i just wanna find out.

[Luvs2plzU]

great responses from some of the guys!!...thanks for helping out...I really don't think and I know for sure in my case it has NOTHING to do about some "gay" issue...it is the hygenic thing..and yes..as far as I've experienced, uhhhhhhhhh the female touche seems cleaner than a guys and I'll tell ya...I'm DILIGENT about the cleaning part...LOL...could say I'm anal...ROFLMAO....good idea about the latex glove idea...and geez,,,usually a females finger is gonna be smaller than the doctors....Mooooooooooon River......hey doc...was it as good for you as it was for me???

[zippycalcat]

To the guys afraid of what might be in there:
You should look at this just like anyother part of your body. Just clean it before going into anal play. Sit on the bidet, clean as you normally would do on the outside. Then, spread soap on a finger (I prefer a soft liquid soap here) and press gently on the anus. Due to the soap your finger will suddenly be sucked inside. Just go inside as much as you can cleaning it all and finally do it again now with water running all around to get the soap out. That's all there is to it. Really.

[Lackadaisical]

well, this thread made my life more interesting After reading so many positive responses, my BF finally wanted to try it out with me, and we did. He seemed pretty damn amazed when he came...He was freaking out, pretty much. Trying to explain the pleasure....I was so proud. Maybe we need all men to read this thread and consider giving anal play a chance, if they haven't already.

[Maribelle]

How far in is the male G-spot I can usually only fit my finger in to the 1st knuckle -- very rarely to the 2nd.... Maybe I'm just too timid, I don't know -- he pushes out for me to go in & tells me to push harder, but nothing happens

[demonbuttercup]

Originally Posted by Maribelle

How far in is the male G-spot I can usually only fit my finger in to the 1st knuckle -- very rarely to the 2nd.... Maybe I'm just too timid, I don't know -- he pushes out for me to go in & tells me to push harder, but nothing happens

I dont think its that far in.
You need to curve your finger towards his front... not up inside.
the prostate is located around where the perineum is I believe.