Male Anal & Prostate 101

[vette1963]

Dlink... i like you am very curious about it. maybe the moderator could help us with some ideas on where to go for "how to" tips. apparently whores use it to get their drunk johns off quickly. but again haven't tried it but would like too

[Brandye]

OK, I'll try. True prostate stimulation ismcludes sticking your finger up his rectum and pressing on the prostate which is between your finger and his scrotum.

Now, let;s be realistic. When doing blow jobs, or dometimes, handjobs, I keep a finger pressed up bethind the scrotum. This is right against the prostate. Pressing rhythmically will stimulate the prostate. When he begins to ejaculate it gives me early warning to press my tongue against the back of my hard palate and I can then press each time he contracts. This really gets him empty

[yojimbo]

has any one tried this by inserting a finger in the anus? I have read about it and heard about but only tried it once with my girlfriend. She had never done it before so neither of us really knew what we were doing, whilst it was an interesting sensation it wasnt the thrill that i have heard reported for this action. Can anyone enlighten me or at least help with a good description of how it is best done?

[yojimbo]

Hi all , i have an interest in this and have actually started off a new thread about it before i realised this was running. My girlfriend tried this with me once and i had hoped for more , but it didnt seem to push any buttons . An ideas on technique would be well appreciated.

[Brandye]

OK, I'll try. I generally put the pressure from the outside just behind the scrotum or in front of the anus. With a well lubricated (emphasis on well lubricated), you can insert the finger a couple inches and press forward.

This should come later in foreplay. If you two are exploring, just play around with tickling and nibbling. I have had men who particularly like tongue baths of their balls and this would be the extreme rear position for "bathing." The other great spot is the base of the penis right where the scrotum begins.

If you put the finger in, move it gently and press toward the front of the body. When ejaculation begins, get in rhythm. Lots more gets squeezed out.

OK, I have a finger and I have some experience. I do not have a prostate (thank goodness, I like it the way it is!) so men can give better answers.

The book, the Joy of Sex (two volumes; now several years old) covers all sorts of interesting techniques including insertion of things into the anus and removing them as ejaculation takes place.

Men?

[yojimbo]

thanks Brandye hopefully some men will add to this but you have given me a good start. look forward totrying it again.

[vette1963]

Considering having my partner use a strap-on and a dildo (a very small one) The idea has me curious! Has any straight male had it done to him? Was it Excitng or a diaster? Did it hurt?[quote] I'll try anything once!

[The Decoy]

I... I'm not sure I'd go in for that. .... nope.
My anus is for things going out only. Call me old fashioned if you must.. but that's the way it is.


But if you've got the willingness to go through with it... More power too ya!

It'll be alright ..... If shes willing go for it

Anal sex is just as exciting for a male as a female. Go slow and relax